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You know...
你知道...
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There's such a negative connotation about being alone.
孤獨的人有這樣的負面內涵。
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Hey, loner!
嘿,孤獨者!
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Or should we say LOSER?
或者我們應該說LOSER?
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Or should we say both?
還是應該說兩者都有?
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And yet, spending time by yourself is how we figure out who we are and what we really love.
然而,自己一個人待著,我們才會搞清楚自己是誰,自己真正愛的是什麼。
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Lately...
最近...
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I've been feeling really shitty about being alone.
我一直覺得自己很孤獨,很糟糕。
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Like, should I be surrounded by people?
比如說,我應該被人包圍嗎?
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Is there something wrong with me?
我有什麼問題嗎?
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Is it weird that I don't have a lot of friends?
我沒有很多朋友很奇怪嗎?
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But, I've come to the conclusion that it's the idea of being alone that bugs me a lot more than ACTUALLY being alone.
但是,我得出的結論是,比起真正的孤獨,孤獨的想法更讓我煩惱。
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Because, taking yourself to the movies, is amazing.
因為,帶著自己去看電影,很神奇。
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And have you ever gone to dinner solo? It's a whole new experience!
那你有沒有單獨去吃過飯呢?這是一種全新的體驗!
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I actually used to take myself out on a date every week, whether it was to Barnes and Nobles, or a thrift store, or even just window shopping for cats.
其實我以前每週都會帶自己出去約會,不管是去巴諾書店,還是舊貨店,甚至只是逛櫥窗買貓。
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Hanging out by yourself can be so much fun.
自己一個人出去玩,可以有很多樂趣。
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And yet, it's looked down upon.
卻被人看不起。
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You see someone who's alone, and you're like, "Oh, you're so lonely."
你看到有人誰是孤獨的, 你想,"哦,你是如此孤獨。"
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You know what I mean? It's thought of as like, sad.
你知道我的意思嗎?它被認為是喜歡,悲傷。
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When it doesn't have to be, and in fact it's probably really healthy for you!
當它不必如此,事實上它可能對你真的很健康!
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When I was a teenager, I always used to fantasize about the day I met my significant other.
十幾歲的時候,我總是會幻想自己遇到另一半的那一天。
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I was like, "Oh, we're gonna be best friends and partners in crime and we're gonna have a ball!"
我當時想,"哦,我們會成為最好的朋友和犯罪的夥伴,我們會有一個球!"
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And then as I grew up, and experienced relationships, I would always stumble.
然後隨著我的成長,經歷了感情,我總會跌跌撞撞。
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Because I failed to realize that...
因為我沒有意識到...
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if I don't like hanging out with myself, why would anyone else?
我不喜歡跟自己混,別人怎麼會喜歡呢?
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So, I encourage you to give it a try.
所以,我鼓勵你去試一試。
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Take yourself out on a date this week.
這周帶自己出去約會吧。
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Challenge accepted, accepted.
挑戰接受,接受。
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I mean, it can be scary.
我的意思是,它可以是可怕的。
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And weird, and you might feel lonely, but, I think in the end, you'll be really proud of yourself for at least giving it a shot.
而且很奇怪,你可能會感到孤獨,但是,我想最後,你會為自己感到驕傲,至少給它一個機會。
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Who knows?
誰知道呢?
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You might get lucky.
你可能會很幸運。
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No, I don't think masturbation counts.
不,我覺得手淫不算。
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Although it is technically healthy.
雖然在技術上是健康的。
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So, the other day, I walked in on THIS:
所以,有一天,我走在這個。
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Are those my first edition Watchmen comics out of the plastic?!
我的第一版《守望者》漫畫是用塑膠做的嗎!?
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You said I could read them...
你說我能讀懂他們...
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That's what the $20 compilation booklet is for! What the fu--!
這就是20美元的合集小冊子的作用!搞什麼鬼...