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  • Figuring out whether your crush likes you is one of the hardest things to figure out.

    弄清楚自己暗戀的對象是否喜歡自己是最困難的事情。

  • Because when it comes to attraction, things are usually kept pretty subtle.

    這是因為戀愛是個很奇妙的東西。

  • You have to look pretty close, if you want to see the signs that someone likes you.

    如果你想要看出對方是否喜歡你的傾向,你必須非常仔細地觀察。

  • Here's what to keep an eye out for.

    這裡是需要注意的地方。

  • 1. They respond to the sound of your voice.

    1. 他們回應你的聲音。

  • The sound of your voice can seriously attract other people.

    你的聲音會吸引其他人,

  • Many studies have found that women are attracted to deeper voices in men.

    許多研究發現女人會被男人較低沉的聲音吸引,

  • Whereas men like higher voices in women.

    但是男人卻會被女人較高昂的聲音吸引。

  • Fast talkers are seen as more educated.

    說話很快的人會被認為受過較高等的教育。

  • And if you can change up your inflection,

    如果你可以改變你的語調,

  • you are seen as more interesting.

    別人會認為你很有趣。

  • Your crush might be in love with the sound of your voice,

    你暗戀的對象也許會喜歡你說話的聲音,

  • so keep an eye out to see if they are responding to your voice with a smile or a laugh.

    所以仔細觀察他們是否笑著回應你的聲音。

  • If this is the case, there might be a spark of attraction.

    如果是這樣的情況下,就是一種戀愛。

  • 2. They play hard to get.

    2. 他們會故作矜持。

  • The rumours are true, playing hard to get is a big sign of attraction.

    這個說法是真的,故作矜持是吸引人的重要指標。

  • When we're with someone who's playing hard to get, we usually work that much harder to get their attention

    當有人對我們故作冷淡時,我們通常會更努力吸引他們的注意。

  • and that makes the seduction process much more intense.

    這會強化誘惑的過程。

  • This all comes down to one thing, availability.

    總歸於一件事「可得性」,

  • Appearing to be less available can make people want you even more.

    越難得到的東西會讓人們更想要。

  • 3. Uncrossed legs.

    3. 未交叉的腿。

  • Body language also reveals a lot about availability.

    肢體語言也可顯示「可得性」。

  • For example, when someone uncrosses their legs and arms,

    舉例來說,當有人打開腿或手臂時,

  • they are basically saying; I'm available.

    基本上就在暗示:「我可以。」

  • This is a basic body language in both men and women

    這是異性之間基本的肢體語言。

  • So this rule also applies to same sex couples.

    這個規則也可適用於同性伴侶。

  • There are plenty of other signs of open body language

    人們還有許多開放式的肢體語言,

  • such as unturned palms, maintaining eye contact, and many more.

    例如:未轉動的手掌、保持眼神交流 ... 等等。

  • 4. They talk about being single.

    4. 他們會談論單身。

  • Let's stick on the topic of availability

    我們繼續探討「可得性」的主題,

  • because its such a huge factor in attraction.

    因為它是吸引人的重要原因。

  • When someone suddenly drops a hint of being single, its a great sign.

    當有人突然暗示你他們單身時,這是好跡象。

  • So if someone suddenly mentions that they're single, maybe its the right time to make a move.

    所以如果有人突然提到他們是單身,這也許是你進一步追求的最佳時機。

  • Because who knows, they might be sending out signals of availability, as a sign of attraction.

    誰知道呢,他們也許是喜歡你,所以發出「可得性」的訊號。

  • 5. Leaning in.

    5. 靠向你。

  • A 2014 study, identified 5 seperate flirting styles

    2014 年有個研究指出五種不同的調情風格,

  • and leaning in was a huge sign of attraction that was mentioned.

    而靠向對方就是其中喜歡的重大徵兆。

  • They specified that leaning in on an angle from the hip is a big sign of flirting.

    他們表示從臀部傾斜一個角度就是調情的重要標誌。

  • So if your crush is leaning into you after you make them laugh,

    所以當你逗得他們笑時,如果你暗戀的對象接近且觸碰你,

  • it could be a major sign of attraction,

    就可能是對你有好感。

  • so keep an eye out for that.

    因此請你注意觀察這點。

  • 6. Revealing personal info.

    6. 透漏自己的私事。

  • As a general rule, the more personal info a person reveals,

    一般來說,一個人透露越多個人私事,

  • the more interested they are in you.

    代表他們對你越有興趣。

  • That's what a recent study found , when they studies flirting techniques

    最近的研究顯示,他們發現這些調情技巧

  • this can still be done in a subtle way,

    都可以用微妙的方式完成。

  • for example, someone might reveal that they are dealing with a hardbreaking loss or a major setback

    舉例來說,他們可能用輕鬆不拘的方式,

  • but in a slightly casual way.

    告訴你他們正面臨著重大挫折或損失。

  • 7. Teasing.

    7. 捉弄。

  • In that same study, the researchers also studied the signs of flirting that might arise during a conversation

    在同樣的研究裡發現談話過程中可能出現的調情跡象,

  • and teasing was a big part of that.

    捉弄是其中重要的一種。

  • They specified that teasing consisted of making fun of another person in a light-hearted way.

    他們所謂的捉弄包含以輕鬆的方式去取笑他人。

  • We're guessing that a lot of our viewers have probably experienced teasing in their own flirting experiences.

    我們猜想很多人可能都經歷過因為調情而惡作劇的經驗。

  • but remember: Keep teasing light-hearted and fun.

    但記住:請輕鬆愉快地捉弄。

  • Never make fun of someone for things they are insecure about.

    不要捉弄他人在意或隱私的事情。

  • No matter how much you're crushing on them.

    不管你有多喜歡他們。

  • 8. Eye pupils and dilation are linked with arousal.

    8. 眼睛瞳孔擴張與喚醒理論有關。

  • We all know that eyes are windows to the soul,

    眼睛是靈魂之窗,

  • but if you stare deep enough into your crush's eyes,

    如果你凝視著你暗戀對象的眼睛,

  • you might just get a clue as to whether they are into you.

    你可能會知道他們是否喜歡你。

  • Studies have shown, that when people become aroused,

    研究發現當人們被喚醒時,

  • their pupils actually DILATE

    他們的瞳孔確實會放大。

  • This is actually a pretty good sign of sexual orientation as well

    這其實也是性取向的好信號。

  • Your eyes will dilate when you look at the gender you are most attracted to.

    當你看著吸引你的異性時,你的眼睛瞳孔會放大。

  • 9. Playing with nearby objects.

    9. 玩弄身邊的小東西。

  • When some people get nervous, they fidget.

    有些人緊張或煩躁時,

  • They might play with their hair, their bracelets, or their nails.

    他們會玩弄頭髮、項鍊或是指甲,

  • But according to a recent study,

    但根據最近的研究,

  • those same behaviors might be linked with attraction.

    同樣的行為也跟戀愛有關,

  • Researchers found, that people that are flirting often found themselves playing

    研究者發現當在調情時,

  • with buttons on their shirts, zippers, strings and many other nearby objects.

    他們會玩衣服上的鈕扣、拉鍊、線或其他身邊的小東西。

  • 10. Mirroring.

    10. 鏡像 (模仿)

  • Another big sign of attraction, is mirroring.

    另一個喜歡的徵兆就是鏡像反應。

  • If you look closely, you might find that your crush seems to be copying your movements & behaviors in a subtle way,

    如果你仔細觀察,你會發現你暗戀的對象好像會巧妙地模仿你的動作和行為,

  • it might be tilting their head to the side in the same way as you

    他們可能會跟你一樣將頭傾斜到同一側,

  • or adopting a similar posture

    或是有著類似的姿勢。

  • Mirroring has been studied quite intensively in psychological research.

    在心理學研究中對鏡像研究非常深入。

  • Which of these signs do you find interesting and believable?

    你認為哪個徵兆最可信且有趣呢?

  • Let us know your own experiences in the comments below!

    你可以在下方留言分享你自身的經驗。

  • Also, please check out our friends.

    此外,請去看看我們朋友的影片。

  • Go check it out guys, understanding will help us bond better! Its very interesting!

    去看看並且理解,這將會幫助我們有更好的連結,很有趣的。

  • Have a great day ahead!!

    祝你有個美好的一天!

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Figuring out whether your crush likes you is one of the hardest things to figure out.

弄清楚自己暗戀的對象是否喜歡自己是最困難的事情。

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