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  • Hey Ambitious Professionals! It's Linda Raynier of lindaraynier.com guiding you

    嘿,雄心勃勃的專業人士!我是琳達-雷尼爾,來自lindaraynier.com,為你指導。我是琳達-雷尼爾(Linda Raynier),來自lindaraynier.com,為您提供指導。

  • to a career in life you'll truly enjoy and in today's video I'm going to teach

    的職業生涯,你會真正享受和在今天'的視頻我'要教

  • you four key steps on how to improve your communication skills whether you're

    你的四個關鍵步驟,如何提高你的溝通技巧,無論你是'。

  • talking to just one person or a whole group of people and so that you can feel

    與一個人或一整群人交談,這樣你就能感覺到自己的能力。

  • natural at ease and confidence

    瀟灑自如

  • as a career strategist I've had the honour of being able to help numerous

    作為一名職業戰略家,我有幸能夠幫助眾多的人。

  • professionals land their dream job offers and so if this is something that

    專業人士獲得他們夢想中的工作機會,是以,如果這是個什麼東西,那就是

  • you're interested in working with me one on one I can definitely give you details

    你'有興趣和我一對一合作,我一定可以給你詳細介紹。

  • about that at the end of this video in my line of work where I work with

    關於這一點,在這段視頻的結尾,在我的工作行,我的工作與

  • corporate professionals and help them to advance their careers a common topic of

    企業專業人員,幫助他們推進事業發展的共同話題。

  • discussion is communication if you struggle with communication then this

    討論就是溝通,如果你在溝通上有困難,那麼這是你的問題。

  • may also be you where you're in a situation where you're talking to people

    也可能是你在哪裡你'的情況下,你'的人說話。

  • and you find that the conversation is very unnatural it's forced and it

    你會發現,談話是非常不自然的 它是被迫的,而且它

  • doesn't really go anywhere and you find that the other person is struggling to

    並沒有真正去任何地方,你發現對方是掙扎在

  • hold their interest in you and you feel that there's something wrong with you

    保持他們對你的興趣,你覺得有'的東西你錯了。

  • because of the way that you're communicating to them and this can

    因為你與他們溝通的方式,這可以

  • easily happen in a situation where you're at a let's say networking event

    很容易發生的情況下,你'在一個讓我們'說網絡活動。

  • and you have to talk to a group of strangers where you just feel awkward

    你要跟一群陌生人說話 你只是覺得尷尬

  • you feel unnatural and you're not able to really develop any connections with

    你覺得不自然,你'不能夠真正發展任何連接,與

  • anyone so today I'm going to teach you four steps that will really help you to

    任何人,所以今天我'要教你四個步驟,將真正幫助你到

  • improve your communication skills whether you're in a social setting or in

    提高你的溝通技巧,無論你是在社會環境中還是在

  • a professional setting and so that you can feel more confident and at ease step

    在專業的環境中,讓您更有信心,更放心地走下去。

  • number one listen intently now I know what you're thinking how can

    第一,仔細聽我說,我知道你在想什麼,你怎麼能這麼做?

  • communication be about listening when really it's about talking you assume

    溝通是關於傾聽的,而真正的是關於談話的,你假設

  • that to improve your communication skills it's really about your ability to

    要提高你的溝通技巧,它真的是關於你的能力。

  • speak right well yes and no the key thing about communication is that if

    說的對不對,對不對,溝通的關鍵是,如果是

  • you're able to listen intently to the other person and you're able to hear

    你'能夠專心地聽對方說話,你'能夠聽到

  • what they're really saying beyond the words that are coming out of their

    他們真正說的是什麼超越了他們的話語,是出來的。

  • mouths you're gonna be able to have more value to add to the conversation because

    嘴,你會能夠有更多的價值添加到談話,因為。

  • you're gonna be able to say something that is beyond what it is that they're

    你'要能說的東西,是超越它是什麼,他們'。

  • just talking about at a surface level listening intently doesn't just mean

    只是說在表面上專心致志地聽,並不只是意味著。

  • using your ears and hearing what the person is saying it's really being able

    用你的耳朵和聽到的人在說什麼它真的能夠

  • to get a sense of what they're feeling it's being able to get a sense of really

    感受到他們的感受,能夠得到一個真正的感覺

  • what they're trying to express and wait maybe what they're not trying to express

    他們想表達的東西和等待也許他們不想表達的東西。

  • as well so it's really about using your intuition as well being able to read a

    是以,它真的是關於使用你的直覺以及能夠閱讀一個

  • person hear the words that are coming out of their mouths but also hear what

    嘴裡說著什麼,但也聽到了什麼。

  • it is that they're really try to mean when they're talking about that

    它是,他們真的嘗試的意思,當他們'說起這一點。

  • and whenever you can really do this exercise where you're really extending

    和每當你可以真正做到這一點的練習,你真的延長

  • yourself in a way that you're really listening and paying attention to

    你自己的方式,你'真的聽和注意到

  • someone they can feel that off of you and automatically they feel that you're

    一個人,他們可以感覺到,從你和自動他們覺得你'。

  • more engaged with them and they're more likely to share and to talk to you and

    更多的參與他們,他們'更有可能分享,並與你交談,並。

  • to feel comfortable around you and that is a key part to being a good

    在你身邊感覺很舒服,這是成為一個好的關鍵部分。

  • communicator step number two respond with phrases that relate to what that

    溝通者的第二步 用與之相關的短語來回應。

  • person is talking about you can start off with phrases such as that's

    的人在談論你可以開始與短語,如that's

  • interesting because I can relate because that's true

    有趣的是,因為我能體會到,因為那是真實的。

  • because starting your conversation with these types of words shows that you're

    因為用這些類型的話開始你的談話,說明你'。

  • interested and engaged in the other person and so if you want people to be

    有興趣,並參與到另一個人,所以如果你想讓人們是。

  • engaged and interested in you when you're communicating with them you first

    當你與他們交流時,你首先要參與並對你感興趣。

  • have to give that energy saying things like that's true because etc etc etc

    要付出的精力說這樣的話'是真的,因為等等等等。

  • shows that you can relate and you can validate what the other person is saying

    表明你能感同身受,你能驗證對方所說的話。

  • and that is what as human beings we're all looking to do to be validated to be

    而這正是作為人類的我們'都在尋找做的驗證是

  • heard by other people and to feel connected to those that we're talking to

    被其他人聽到,並感覺到與那些我們正在談論的人聯繫在一起。

  • step number three to improving your communication skills tell stories after

    提高溝通能力的第三步 講完故事再講

  • the because part of your conversation tell a story that relates to what that

    因為你的談話的一部分,告訴一個故事,涉及到什麼。

  • person is talking about the story obviously has to have a point and it has

    的人在談論的故事顯然有一個點,它有。

  • to be something that is in relation to what you guys are discussing as I always

    是什麼東西,是在什麼你們正在討論的,因為我總是。

  • say a good story follows the same pattern as a movie think of any good

    都說好故事跟電影一樣,想一想有什麼好的故事?

  • movie you've watched and when you can break it down there are actually three

    電影你'看了,當你能分解它其實有三個

  • key parts to the movie and I call this SAR an acronym that stands for situation

    電影的關鍵部分,我把這個SAR稱為一個縮寫,代表著情況。

  • action and results the majority of the movie is made up of this situation the

    行動和結果的大部分電影是由這種情況下的

  • setting up of the story getting to know the characters their stories their

    故事的設置 瞭解人物,他們的故事,他們的故事

  • situations the things that they're dealing with the issues that they're

    他們正在處理的問題的情況下,他們'的事情,他們'。

  • having to go through and the situation the setting that they're in the second

    有去通過和情況 他們在第二的設置

  • part of the movie is the action where the good guy fights the bad guy so

    電影的一部分是行動的地方 好人戰鬥的壞人,所以。

  • you're actually seeing what are the steps that that guy is

    你'實際上看到的步驟是什麼,那個傢伙是。

  • taking or that girl is taking to resolve the initial situation or the problem

    採取或該女孩正在採取解決最初的情況或問題。

  • that they're dealing with and the third part of the movie is the shortest in

    他們正在處理的和第三部分的電影是最短的在

  • length and it's simply the conclusion or the result what ended up happening when

    它的長度和它的簡單的結論或結果最終發生了什麼,當

  • you can learn to tell your stories using this type of structure it's going to

    你可以學習使用這種類型的結構來講述你的故事,它'要

  • make the other person feel more engaged more interested in you and in your story

    讓對方感覺更投入,對你和你的故事更感興趣。

  • and it's going to help you to prove the point that you're trying to make as well

    它將幫助你證明你的觀點,你'試圖使以及。

  • and finally step number four to improving your communication skills

    最後是提高溝通能力的第四步。

  • practice this is something that so many professionals seem to overlook when

    這是許多專業人士似乎忽略的事情,當

  • they're going to any networking event or meeting people for the first time and

    他們'去任何網絡活動或滿足人們的第一次,並

  • they know that they're gonna have to meet these people and talk to these

    他們知道,他們'要去必須滿足這些人,並與這些交談。

  • people and that is to practice practice ahead of time what you're going to say

    的人,那就是提前練習練習你'要說的話

  • if you had an important presentation to do at work you wouldn't just walk into

    如果你有一個重要的演示文稿,在工作中,你不會只是走到

  • the meeting and just be unprepared and talk on the fly you would want to

    會議,只是在沒有準備的情況下,你會想在飛行中說話。

  • practice ahead of time well in other professional and social settings it also

    在其他專業和社會環境中提前練習好,它還可以

  • doesn't hurt to practice ahead of time you want to have your stories ahead of

    不'傷害提前練習 你想有你的故事的前面

  • time prepared so that when you do go ahead and communicate them they're more

    時間準備,所以,當你做前進和溝通他們,他們'更

  • fluent they're more fluid and they come off more naturally without thinking

    流暢,他們更流暢,他們更自然地脫口而出,不需要思考

  • through and developing your stories you won't succeed in your communication so

    通過和發展你的故事,你不會成功在你的溝通,所以。

  • work on your communication skills by practicing on your own time and then the

    通過自己的時間練習來鍛鍊自己的溝通能力,然後再由自己的時間來練習

  • next time that you have to go into a group meeting or group conversation or

    下一次,你必須進入一個小組會議或小組對話或。

  • just a one-on-one conversation you'll be able to communicate in a more natural

    只是一對一的談話,你將能夠在一個更自然的溝通。

  • and confident way so there you have it my four steps on how you can improve

    和自信的方式,所以你有它我的四個步驟,如何你可以提高。

  • your communication skills whether in a group or individual setting now if

    無論是在小組還是個人環境中,你的溝通技巧現在如果

  • you're someone who's been searching for a job for a while you've been looking

    你'的人誰'的一直在尋找工作一段時間你'的一直在尋找。

  • you've been going on interviews but you just haven't been successful and you

    你一直在去面試,但你只是沒有成功,而你

  • realize that you need one-on-one professional help

    意識到自己需要一對一的專業幫助

  • then feel free to reach out to me head on over to my website lindaraynier.com/standoutgethired

    然後隨時聯繫我到我的網站lindaraynier.com/standoutgethired。

  • feel free to read through the page fill out the

    請隨意閱讀網頁,填寫表格

  • application form and if I feel or my team feels that we're a potential match

    申請表,如果我覺得或我的團隊覺得我們是一個潛在的比賽。

  • then we'll reach out to you directly and we'll take it from there if you like

    然後,我們'會直接聯繫你,我們'會從那裡,如果你喜歡。

  • this video then please give it a thumbs up subscribe share it with you

    這個視頻,然後請給它豎起大拇指訂閱分享給你。

  • friends thank you so much for watching and I will see you next time

    朋友們,謝謝你們的觀看,我們下期再見

Hey Ambitious Professionals! It's Linda Raynier of lindaraynier.com guiding you

嘿,雄心勃勃的專業人士!我是琳達-雷尼爾,來自lindaraynier.com,為你指導。我是琳達-雷尼爾(Linda Raynier),來自lindaraynier.com,為您提供指導。

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