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  • Honey is a free browser extension that automatically finds the best coupons on the web so you always get the best prices on everything you buy online.

    Honey 是一個免費的瀏覽器擴充功能,可以自動在網絡上找到最划算的優惠券,讓你可以網路上購買任何東西時獲得最優惠的價格。

  • How do you know if someone likes you?

    你怎麼知道有人喜歡你?

  • We mean of course in an amorous way, a desirous way, that they want to get intimate with you and not just do homework together or share DIY tips.

    我們指的是在愛情、渴望彼此的方面上,那些想和你變得更親近,而不只是一起做做功課或分享一些自己動手做的小技巧。

  • Maybe they just come right out and tell you, but that's not often the case at the start.

    也許他們會直接走到你面前表白,但一開始的情況通常不會是這樣。

  • Maybe they hit "like" on all those Facebook profile pictures you change incessantly, but that might not mean anything.

    他們可能會幫你時常更換的臉書大頭貼按讚,但這也許不代表什麼。

  • There are, however, signals you can read if you know them.

    可是,只要知道有哪些跡象,你就能夠發覺它們。

  • Sometimes these might seem obvious, but sometimes they are more subliminal.

    有時這些表現可能很明顯,但有時卻令人難以察覺。

  • Wouldn't it be great if we could just read people like a book and know if someone desires us?

    如果我們能夠洞悉人事物就像看書一樣,而且知道誰喜歡我們,那不是很好嗎?

  • Well, keep watching, because today we'll help you out, in this episode of the Infographics Show, Signals of Attraction - How Do We Know If He or She Likes You?

    那就繼續收看,因為我們今天會在這集的動畫圖表幫你了解,當人被吸引時有什麼跡象 - 你怎麼知道人家喜歡你 / 妳?

  • It might not always be the same for men as it is for women, so we'll start with how women can tell if a man likes them.

    男生和女生的反應特徵不見得每次都一樣,所以我們先來看看女生如何知道一個男生喜歡自己。

  • Men are often expected to make the first move, but here at the Infographics Show, we'd like to think we are more modern.

    大家總是期望男生能主動一點,但這次的動畫圖 ,我們希望可以跳脫以往的框架思考。

  • So, other than "Hey dude, I think you're really cute. Do you wanna grab a burger sometime?" how can a woman tell?

    除了「嗨,小子,我覺得你長得很可愛,你有空的時候想一起吃個漢堡嗎?」女生們該如何分辨呢?

  • What are the signs?

    有哪些特徵呢?

  • Well, the most obvious thing is body language.

    肢體語言是最明顯的跡象。

  • What is he saying when he's not saying anything?

    當他什麼都沒說時,他在表達什麼?

  • Apparently, women have a lot more "tells" than men, but guys do give some things away.

    很明顯地,女人有更多跡象可尋,但在男人身上,也找得到一些行為特徵。

  • The most obvious being he just keeps looking at you.

    最明顯的就是他的目光一直在你身上。

  • This might come across as creepy in some circumstances, but most of the time his glances will only mean he finds you attractive.

    在某些情況下,這樣可能會讓人感到不舒服,但大多時候,他對妳拋媚眼只是因為他被妳吸引住了。

  • If he makes eye contact, all the better, and if his brows rise, that may mean he's giving you a signal.

    如果他和妳兩眼注視,更好的話,還對會對妳挑眉,他可能在給妳暗示。

  • If he's not confident and a little shy, maybe he will blush if you approach him.

    如果他不太有自信或是有點羞怯,或是當妳靠近,他會害羞時,

  • This is a sure sign he likes you, unless of course he's done something strange, like steal your iPhone.

    這表示他喜歡妳,除非他做了一些奇怪的事,例如偷你的手機。

  • We should add that a curious gaze is perhaps more benign, while leering at you is probably more carnal.

    我們應該把他好奇的凝視 (gaze) 往好處想,而對妳放電 (leer) 或許是肉慾了些。

  • So, now you are up close to him.

    所以現在,妳可以試著靠近他。

  • Look at his body now.

    觀察他的身體有什麼反應。

  • Does he lean into you, breach the space between you without actually touching you?

    他會往妳的方向前傾,壓縮兩人之間的空間,卻又沒碰到妳嗎?

  • This is a sure sign.

    這是一個明確的暗示。

  • You should also check out his feet and hands, are they pointing in your direction?

    妳也應該注意他的雙手和腳是不是也朝著你的方向?

  • This is another sign.

    這意味著另一件事。

  • It depends on the man, but some guys will play it tough, tell you stories that seem to big him up, while he sits knees apart and shoulders upright.

    其實是取決於男生本身,有些人就會不甘示弱,告訴你一些看似豐功偉業的故事好讓你崇拜他,同時雙腿開開、豎起雙肩地坐著。

  • A shyer person might bumble his words, only because he feels under great pressure being so close to the object of his attraction.

    一個更害羞的人講話可能還會結巴,因為太靠近吸引他的人事物,反而會造成他很大的壓力。

  • If you look carefully into his eyes, you may even see his pupils dilate.

    如果妳仔細看他的眼睛,可能會發現他的瞳孔放大。

  • This is a biological reaction, something natural that happens when we are aroused.

    這是一種生理反應,當我們興趣被挑起時會自然發生。

  • It's the same for men as it is for women, so when those black discs widen in the both of you, it means love is in the air, or at least some kind of intimacy beckons.

    對男人是這樣,對女人也是如此。所以,當你發現雙方的瞳孔都放大時,代表空氣中瀰漫著愛的氛圍,或至少某程度的親密召喚。

  • So, you've got this man, looking at you, not turning away, giving you his full attention, sometimes showing off, and sometimes fumbling around nervously.

    所以,妳已經發現這個男人毫不遮掩地將注意力放在妳身上、注視著妳,有時想炫耀、有時卻不知所措顯得緊張。

  • What else?

    還有呢?

  • Well, he may try and verbally show interest in you.

    他可能會藉由說話來表達他對妳的興趣。

  • It's the pick-up artist's thing to compliment you and then put you down a bit, so be on the lookout for these sorts of nefarious meetings.

    這只是撩妹的手法,用來阿諛奉承妳一下後,又潑你冷水,切記要張大眼睛認清這些低俗的把戲。

  • If he truly likes you, you will know his questioning is sincere.

    如果他是真心喜歡妳,你會發現他的疑問是真誠的。

  • He may even mimic you a little, or you might find him joking with you in a way you haven't seen him do with other girls.

    妳可能會發現,他有時甚至想模仿妳,或是用一種專屬於妳的方式,開妳玩笑。

  • Does he give you a very light play-punch to the shoulder?

    他會輕輕捶一下妳的肩嗎?

  • This isn't a violent act of course, it means he wants to show a little bit of intimacy.

    這當然不是暴力,他只是想跟妳有多一點肢體上的接觸。

  • It's a step forward.

    這表示妳和他有更進一步發展的可能。

  • He may offer you a compliment, but if he offers too many, he's trying too hard.

    也許他會對妳說一些好聽的話,但如果真的太離譜,表示他努力過頭了。

  • You can test him by lightly brushing against him.

    這時妳可以輕輕碰他身體一下,測試看看。

  • If he throws himself at you, he might just be looking for one thing, but if he seems gentle, doesn't step back, it's a sign he might have a crush on you.

    如果他拼命討好你,他可能只是在追求「那一件事」,但要是他舉止溫和,也不畏縮,表示他可能對妳有意思。

  • What about group dynamics?

    那團體行動呢?

  • If other girls turn up, does he keep his concentration on you, or mostly you?

    如果其他女孩們現身,他會繼續把所有目光或是大多數目光放在妳身上嗎?

  • That's a good sign.

    那是好跡象。

  • What about other guys?

    換作是其他男孩們現身呢?

  • Don't try and make him jealous, but if you notice he seems a little edgy when other guys turn up, that's just his ego getting bruised or him feeling he might lose you.

    不要故意讓他患得患失,如果你發現其他男孩們的出現似乎讓他感到著急,那是因為他的自尊心受創或是他感覺到他很可能會失去妳。

  • There are many other more obvious signs, such as asking for a phone number or connecting on social media.

    還有很多明顯的例子,像是跟妳要電話號碼,或是透過社群軟體互相交流。

  • Or that he always seems to be around in the same places as you, but we don't need to tell you about those signs.

    又或者他總是出現在任何妳出沒的地方,但我們沒有必要告訴妳那些跡象。

  • What about women, how do you know when a girl likes you?

    那女人呢?你怎麼知道一個女孩喜不喜歡你?

  • As we said, women have far more signals.

    如同我們剛才所說的,從女生身上可以察覺到更多的蛛絲馬跡。

  • Some experts believe that if you find yourself in a position to talk with a woman, then she has initiated that.

    有些專家認為,如果你意識到自己在和女生聊天,那一定是她先開啟了那個話題。

  • If she wants to chat, she'll often be there in front of you.

    如果她想聊天,就會時常出現在你面前。

  • That in itself is a sign, the fact that you are close.

    那個行為本身就暗示你們兩個夠親密。

  • So, we know some things are the same, such as dilated pupils.

    所以我們知道一些特徵是男女皆有的,像是遇到喜歡的人,瞳孔會放大。

  • The same goes for light touching, but women are often more guarded than men when it comes to being tactile.

    輕微的肢體接觸也是一樣,但女生通常對身體上的觸摸比男生還有防衛心。

  • If you do find she slaps your leg when you make her laugh, or that she just seems to brush up against you a lot, this is regarded as one of the biggest signs.

    如果你發現她被逗笑時會輕拍你的大腿,或她似乎和你有很多的肢體接觸,那這的確是其中一個很明顯的暗示。

  • If she is nervous, she may not do this, but you might find that in your company, she can't help but play with her hair.

    她如果緊張,可能不會做剛剛那些事情。但你也許會發現,她在你旁邊不由自主地撥弄她的頭髮。

  • Psychology websites tell us this is an unconscious act most of the time, and is often a sign of nerves.

    心理學的網站提到,通常因為緊張,才有這種不經意的行為。

  • But it's not always a sure sign she likes you, she might just play with her hair a lot.

    但這不見得是她喜歡你的意思,她可能只是喜歡玩她的頭髮而已。

  • So, you are the one telling jokes, and you find that she finds you hilarious.

    如果你是那種常開人家玩笑的人,她不一定會認為你很幽默。

  • Men, never underestimate how much women approve of a good sense of humor.

    男人們,千萬不要低估女人對幽默感的品味!

  • You might do better by not bragging about your sports accomplishments, and show her how witty and intelligent you are.

    你最好不要吹噓自己在運動上的成就,或是向他、她展示自己有多聰明。

  • If she is falling over laughing, slapping your thigh, it's almost guaranteed she likes you.

    如果她笑得人仰馬翻、不停地拍你大腿,那幾乎保證她是對你有意思的。

  • Now she is looking at you in the eyes between jokes, and she wants to know more about you.

    在你講笑話時,她會認真地看你,表示她想多認識你。

  • She may ask a personal question, really show interest in you, and that's another sign.

    也有可能是她會問一些私人的問題,完全表現出她對你的興趣。

  • In fact, scientists actually wrote a paper on all the signs women make when they are attracted to a man by observing their behavior at social events.

    實際上,科學家們曾發表過一篇論文,講述了他們藉由觀察女性行為,歸結出女生被一個男生吸引時的所有跡象。

  • They came up with 52 signals in total, while men had only 10 tells.

    關於女生,總共有 52 種現象,而男生卻僅有 10 項。

  • Some were obvious, like looking at you, smiling at you, but others not so obvious.

    有些暗示非常明顯,像是注視著你、對你微笑,但其他都不太容易察覺。

  • Some of these included licking her lips, exposing her neck, or even caressing something in her hands.

    包括舔嘴唇、露出脖子或是玩著手上的東西。

  • But given the seriousness of getting things wrong and ending up on the #MeToo list of over-zealous men, you must be careful when reading signs.

    但顧慮到誤會這些訊息、被貼上太過積極男人的標籤以及最後出現在 #MeToo 加害者名單上的嚴重性,你必須謹慎地解讀這些訊息。

  • She touches you, looks into your eyes, laughs with you, asks you lots of questions, plays with her hair,

    她會摸你、看著你的眼睛、對著你笑、問你很多問題、抓弄自己的頭髮,

  • and of course shows you no negative signs like yawning or rolling her eyes or making excuses to get away, then she might just like you.

    當然她也不會對你表現出惡意,像是不停打呵欠、一直眨眼或是找理由離開,那麼她應該就是喜歡你。

  • Perhaps now, and only now, you can ask her out on a date or ask for her contact information.

    也許就是現在、當下,你可以約她出去或是要聯絡電話。

  • A lot of the information we just told you came from Male-dedicated websites, so let's have a look at what women say.

    很多我們剛剛講的資訊都來自以男性思維為主的網站,所以我們現在來看看女生們怎麽說吧。

  • Again, it seems playing with her hair and showing her neck are top of the list, but so is raising her eyebrows and making eye contact.

    同樣地,撩頭髮和露出她的脖子似乎是榜上有名,但挑眉和雙眼對視也很常見。

  • She might also arch her back, making her seem more voluptuous.

    她也可能往前傾,讓自己看起來更性感。

  • She might be too shy for that, so she may blushjust a biological reactionor very carefully allow her foot to brush against your foot.

    她可能會太害羞不敢這樣做,所以她或許會臉紅 - 一個單純的生理反應,或者小心翼翼地將她的腿向你的腳靠攏。

  • You may notice she went to the bathroom and came back to you, but she has applied lipstick.

    你也許注意到她離開座位,從廁所回來後卻多擦了口紅。

  • Rouge lips are attractive to most men.

    塗上口紅的雙唇特別吸引男性。

  • When she scuttled off, did she look back at you over her shoulder?

    當她離開時,會回過頭來看你嗎?

  • That's a sign for sure, unless of course she is running away and looks ill at ease.

    這暗示很明顯,除非她是不自在地急忙跑開。

  • You men should know the difference.

    你們男人應該知道這個差別。

  • She comes back, and you notice a couple of odd things.

    在她回來時,你會注意到一些不尋常的事情。

  • Her nostrils flare and she seems to be copying some of your mannerisms.

    她張大鼻孔,看起來似乎在模仿你的一些習慣。

  • Experts tell us this is a sign of attraction.

    專家解釋這叫做被吸引的行為。

  • So, you brush against her, does she move in closer or is she repelled?

    然後你試著多接近她,她是向你靠近還是遠離你呢?

  • You know what each movement means.

    你了解每個行為背後代表的意涵。

  • Just be gentle.

    只要記得溫文有禮。

  • She might then cross her legs many times, or even brush them in an attractive way.

    她待會可能會翹好幾次腳,或是用一種性感的方式撩腿。

  • Perhaps later she bites her lip seductively, and while there are many men at this gathering, she stays with you.

    也許等等又挑逗地咬著嘴唇。儘管現場有許多男性,她還是依偎在你旁邊。

  • She isn't afraid to let you see her body as she keeps chatting with you, and she keeps on asking you more questions.

    在她不停地和你聊天、問更多關於你的問題時,她並不介意你的目光停在她的身上。

  • All in all, if this is happening, it very likely means she's into you.

    總而言之,如果這件事真的發生了,她非常有可能喜歡你。

  • But interpretation isn't always easy, so now you might want to get verbal and ask her out.

    但解讀這件事並非總是這麼簡單,所以現在你可能想開口和她說話或約她出去玩,看看是否符合自己的期待。

  • In our experience, chocolate and flowers always work best with the ladies.

    在我們的經驗裡,送巧克力和花給女生是最適合的。

  • But who says you can't save money while also romancing your crush?

    可是沒有人說你們一定得花錢在心愛的女孩子身上?

  • Use honey and automatically start saving money on all your online purchases.

    現在馬上下載 Honey 應用程式,它就會自動開始幫你在每一筆的網路購物,省去不必要的開銷。

  • The Honey browser extension works silently in the background, scanning and testing every coupon code on the internet.

    Honey 瀏覽器擴充功能屬於背景處理,會默默地掃描和偵測每一張網路上的折價券。

  • So now you can buy that giant stuffed teddy bear without any regrets because you know there won't be a better deal out there.

    所以現在你可以放心地購買超大型的泰迪熊玩偶,因為你知道沒有一家比這裡更便宜了。

  • Honey is easy to use and free to download.

    Honey 操作簡單,而且免費下載。

  • It only takes two clicks and you'll be on your way to saving money.

    只要按兩下滑鼠,你就等著省錢了。

  • Just click the link in the description to add Honey to your browser for free, or go to join honey dot com slash infographics.

    點選下方連結,並將 Honey 免費設定成自己的瀏覽器,或是加入 honey.com/infographics。

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