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  • When a child is learning to walk, that's the last time we allow ourselves to be overjoyed by the fact that they're trying and failing and trying again.

    孩子剛學習走路是家長最後一次因為看到孩子越挫越勇而感到開心。

  • Of course, it's hard to see them fall, but somehow, we know that this is an essential task for them to practice, practice, practice, and ultimately, perfect.

    當然,看著他們一直跌倒很心疼,但我們都知道這是必經過程:不停地練習,直到完美。

  • Well, somehow, we've forgotten that every single other skill in life is acquired the same way.

    然而,對於所有其他生命中的所需技能,我們卻忘了這些技能是以相同的方式習得的。

  • While I was Dean of Freshmen at Stanford University, we began referring to college students as "kids" or "children".

    當我在史丹佛大學擔任新生的系主任時,我們開始將大學生稱作「孩子們」。

  • And those terms would have...not been used in prior decades.

    這些用語是過去幾十年不曾使用過的。

  • Too many students seemed to be lacking agency in their own lives, and I thought, this is not good for them, and it's not good for all of us at a societal level either.

    太多學生似乎無法在他們的生活中自立,當時我想:「這對他們很不利,就社會層面而言對所有人都不利」。

  • Initially, helicopter parenting appears to work.

    最初,直升機教養方式似乎很有用。

  • As a kid, you're kept safe, you're given direction, you might get a better grade, 'cause that parent is arguing with the teacher.

    作為孩子,你被周全地保護、指引方向,你可能因為爸媽和老師爭執而拿到更高的成績。

  • But we parents we end up getting in our kid's way.

    但作為父母,我們最後會成為孩子的絆腳石。

  • We deprive the kid of the chance to show up in their own lives, take responsibility for things, be accountable for outcomes.

    我們剝奪了孩子生命中的自主性、學習承擔責任並為結果負責的機會。

  • What we've got to do is teach our kids all of these things, whether it's cross the street, or make a meal on the stove, or remember to put your belongings in your backpack.

    我們需要教會孩子這些道理,無論是過馬路、用瓦斯爐煮飯、或記得把東西放進書包裡。

  • There's a 4-step method for teaching kids skills.

    教導孩子技能有四個步驟。

  • Step one: you do it for them.

    第一步:你幫他們做。

  • Step two: you do it with them.

    第二步:你和他們一起做。

  • Step three: you watch them do it.

    第三步:你看著他們做。

  • Step four: they can do it independently.

    第四步:他們有能力自己做。

  • If we don't do this, we will have among us a young adult population that doesn't know how to "hashtag adult".

    如果我們不這麼做,我們周圍就會出現不知道如何標記「成年人」的人口。

  • It becomes a community problem.

    這會是整個社群的問題。

  • It becomes a crisis in leadership.

    領導會出現危機。

  • You have to ask who's gonna to run the schools?

    你必須思考,將來誰來管理學校?

  • Who's gonna to run our nonprofits?

    誰來經營非營利組織?

  • Who's gonna to run the government?

    誰來領導政府?

  • Who's gonna to lead our families?

    誰來主持家庭?

  • Kids have to be able to make their own mistakes growing up.

    孩子在成長的過程中要有犯錯的機會。

  • Life is about having confidence that if you took the wrong path, you can get on the right path.

    生命的意義是,擁有走了歧路還是能重回正途的信心。

  • That if you fall down, you can get back up.

    跌倒後可以再站起來。

  • You know, the moment they learn to walk, they're walking away from us.

    你知道嗎,當孩子學習如何走路的瞬間,他們就與我們漸行漸遠。

  • And it feels terrifying, but as paradoxical as it may sound, our job as parents is... like it or not, to put ourselves out of a job.

    這令人恐慌,但雖然聽起來很矛盾,但無論你喜歡與否,父母責任就是讓自己不再當父母。

When a child is learning to walk, that's the last time we allow ourselves to be overjoyed by the fact that they're trying and failing and trying again.

孩子剛學習走路是家長最後一次因為看到孩子越挫越勇而感到開心。

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