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  • We lose friends for a variety of reasons.

    我們會因為各種原因失去朋友

  • People move.

    人會搬家

  • I don't want to move to New York.

    我不想搬到紐約

  • But,

    但是,

  • they just have better pizza.

    紐約的披薩比較好吃

  • You get into fights.

    你們會吵架

  • Dude!

    老兄!

  • How many times do I have to tell you

    我要跟你講幾次

  • that Los Angeles has great pizza?!

    洛杉磯有好吃的披薩?!

  • Life gets crazy.

    生活很忙碌

  • We could probably get together on...

    我們可以約...

  • Thursday.

    星期四

  • Of January.

    一月

  • 2017.

    2017 年

  • No matter what's the reason,

    無論原因是什麼,

  • we all know what it's like to lose a friend,

    我們都懂失去朋友是什麼感覺,

  • and...it sucks.

    就是糟透了

  • It's kinda like a breakup where you have this period of being

    感覺像分手,你這段時間會感到

  • just sad.

    很難過

  • And you wanna call them.

    你想要打給他們

  • And you wanna know where it all went wrong.

    你想知道哪裡出錯了

  • And you're mourning, and you're moping,

    你會哀傷、憂鬱,

  • until finally one day,

    直到有一天,

  • you wish them well, and you move on with your life.

    你會祝福他們,然後繼續過你的人生

  • The first step is to self-reflect.

    第一步是自我反省

  • And to try to find something that you learned from the friendship.

    試著找到你從友誼中學會的事情

  • Because something about mentally learning something from an experience

    因為從經驗中得到的內心領悟

  • makes it feel whole and complete.

    讓我們感到完全、完整

  • And, in essence, finished.

    本質上的,告一段落

  • Second, don't let this experience deter you from emotionally engaging from other people.

    第二,不要因為這個經驗而不敢與其他人心靈交流

  • Don't let one experience with someone

    不要因為自已過去和某人的相處經驗

  • completely change how you interact with other people.

    而改變你和其他人的互動方式

  • And finally,

    最後,

  • let yourself feel the feelings.

    讓自己去感受

  • There are so many times when our past comes up,

    太多時候,過往回憶襲來,

  • and we just want to push it away.

    然後我們只想將它推開

  • Or our first instinct is to be like,

    第一反應總是像這樣:

  • "Oh don't think about that! FUCK THAT! FUCK. THAT."

    「噢不要去想這個!去他的!去!他!的!」

  • But, it's important to give yourself permission.

    但允許自己思念過去是很重要的

  • So if you miss someone,

    所以如果你想念某人,

  • let yourself just miss them.

    就想吧!

  • And, be like, "You know what, that's fine.

    然後對自己說「你知道,這沒什麼大不了。」

  • I really miss that person, in this moment,

    「我很想念那個人,在這個時刻,」

  • but it's over for a reason."

    「但我們終究是因某些原因而分開了。」

  • And let yourself sit with that

    讓自己陷入想念中

  • for as long as you need to sit with that.

    你要想多久就多久

  • Ultimately, we're all gonna lose a lot of friends throughout our life.

    最終在人生中,我們都會失去很多朋友

  • But we're also gonna gain a lot of friends and a lot of experiences.

    但我們也會交到許多新朋友以及經歷許多事

  • So, it works out! Hey!

    所以不用擔心失去朋友!嘿!

  • Stay awesome, Gotham.

    保重了各位

  • Ha!

    哈!

We lose friends for a variety of reasons.

我們會因為各種原因失去朋友

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