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  • Emotional intelligence is the quality that enables us to confront with patience, insight

    情緒智慧是一種能力,幫助我們以耐心、洞察力

  • and, imagination the many problems that we face in our affective relationship with ourselves

    及想像力來我們面對許多自己與他人之間的情感問題

  • and with other people. The term "emotional intelligence" may sound odd. We are used to referring

    這個詞或許聽起來很奇怪。我們習慣稱

  • to intelligence as a general quality, without unpicking a particular variety a person might

    智慧為一般能力,不是特定某一種類的人才

  • possessand therefore we don't tend to highlight the value of a distinctive sort

    才擁有的,所以我們不會特別強調智慧特別的

  • of intelligence which currently does not enjoy the prestige it should.

    價值,現在它也無法享有這個名聲

  • Every sort of intelligence signals an ability to navigate well around a particular set of

    每種智慧象徵著一種掌控特定挑戰的能力:

  • challenges: mathematical, linguistic, technical, commercialWhen we say that someone is

    數學、語言、科技、商業... 當我們稱一個人是

  • clever but add that they have made a mess of their personal lives; or that they have

    聰明的,但人生卻一團亂,或是他們

  • acquired a fortune but are restless and sad or that they are powerful but intolerant and

    擁有財富,卻不安定又悲傷,或是他們很強大卻心胸狹隘又

  • unimaginative, we are pointing to a deficit in what deserves to be calledemotional intelligence."

    缺乏想像力,我們指的是他缺乏情感智慧

  • In social life, we can feel the presence of emotional intelligence in a sensitivity to

    在社會上,我們可以透過感受到他人的情緒

  • the moods of others and in a readiness to grasp the surprising things that may be going

    感覺到情感智慧的存在,在可能發生在他人身上的

  • on for other people beneath the surface. Emotional intelligence recognises a role for interpretation

    驚喜。情緒智慧扮演解讀的角色

  • and knows that, for example, a fiery outburst might be a disguised plea for help, or that a long political

    並了解例如暴走的情緒可能是請求幫助的暗示、政治性的

  • rant may be provoked by hunger, or that concealed within a forceful jolliness may be a sorrow

    怒吼可能是飢餓的導火線、過度高興的情緒可能隱藏

  • that has been sentimentally disavowed. In relation to ourselves, emotional intelligence

    強烈的悲傷。在與我們的連結中,情緒智慧

  • shows up in a scepticism around our emotions, especially those of love, desire, anger, envy,

    對我們的情緒產生懷疑,尤其是在愛、渴望、生氣、嫉妒、

  • anxiety and professional ambition. The emotionally intelligent refuse to trust their first impulses

    焦慮及事業好勝心。情感智慧拒絕相信第一直覺

  • or the wisdom of their feelings. They know that hatred may mask love, that anger may

    或是感情。他們知道恨可能代表愛、生氣可能隱藏著

  • be a cover for sadness and that we are prone to huge and costly inaccuracies around whom we

    悲傷、還有我們傾向於擁抱我們不該

  • desire and what we want. Emotional intelligence is also what distinguishes

    渴望的對象或事物。情緒智慧也是區辨

  • those who are crushed by failure from those who know how to greet the troubles of existence

    被失敗擊敗或以黑色幽默

  • with a melancholy and at points darkly humorous resilience. The emotionally intelligent appreciate

    面對錯誤的人。情緒智慧欣賞

  • the role of well-handled pessimism within the overall economy of a good life.

    能夠掌控整體人生中悲傷的人

  • Emotional intelligence isn't an inborn talent. It's always the result of education, specifically

    情緒智慧不是與生俱來的天賦。它一直都是經過教育的結果,特別是

  • education in how to interpret ourselves, in where our emotions arise from, in how our childhoods influence us

    在如何解讀自己、我們的情緒從哪裏來、我們的童年如何影響我們

  • and in how we might best navigate our fears and our wishes. In the ideal society, it would be routine

    以及我們如何操縱我們的恐懼及希望。在理想的社會中,情緒智慧會

  • to be taught emotional intelligence from the youngest age, before we had had the opportunity

    是從小就有的教育,在我們有可能

  • to make too many mistakes. It is because we haveuntil nownot taken

    犯下許多錯誤之前。那是因為我們,直到現在,沒有認真受過

  • emotional education seriously enough that our species has grown ever more technically

    足夠的情緒教育,我們人類隨著成長變得技術上的

  • adept while retaining the level of wisdom of our earliest dayswith catastrophic results.

    熟練同時保持在與早期同等級的智力,導致悲劇性結果。

  • We are now evolved monkeys with nuclear weapons. It appears that fate of civilisation now

    我們是持有核能武器的猴類變種。這顯示出現今的文明

  • depends on our capacity to master the mechanisms of emotional education before it is too late.

    依賴我們掌握情緒的技巧,在還沒太遲之前

  • An emotional education means something far beyond formal education as we have conceived of it to date.

    情緒智慧凌駕正規教育之上,在我們察覺前

  • Though it should ideally include courses in every year of school or college,

    雖然這應該被歸類在每年學校或大學的特別課程

  • emotional education is more than something that should just take place in classrooms at the

    情緒教育是不限於在教室中發生的

  • hands of teachers and come to a halt around the age of twenty-one.

    然後大概在 21 歲時停止

  • The central vehicle for the transfer of emotional intelligence is culture, from its highest

    情緒智慧的轉變是文化,從最高層到

  • to its most popular level. Culture is the field that can ritualise and consistently

    最受歡迎的等級。文化是可被儀式化且持續的

  • promote the absorption of emotional intelligence. The 'lessons' might be embedded in a tragedy

    推廣的情緒智慧。文化的「課題」可能藏在一場悲劇

  • or a TV series, a pop song or a novel, a work of architecture or a YouTube film. We can

    或電視影集、一首流行歌或小說、文學作品或是 YouTube 影片。我們可以

  • envisage the entire apparatus of culture as a subtle mechanism designed to point us towards

    想像整個文化的樣貌,微小的細節可以指向

  • greater emotional intelligence. We will never progress as a species, and will

    廣大的情緒智慧。物種永遠不會進步,而會

  • indeed grow into ever greater technologically-armed menaces to ourselves, until we have accepted

    走向更技術性的武裝對立,直到我們接受

  • the challenges and opportunities of properly educating our selves in emotional intelligence.

    情緒智慧的挑戰與適當教育的機會。

  • Our technical intelligence is great of course. It's led us to tame nature and conquer this planet. But a wiser, saner

    我們的情緒智慧的確偉大。它引領我們馴服自然、征服世界。但更有智慧、更理性

  • future for the race must depend on a capacity to master and then seductively teach the rudiments

    未來一定要依賴掌握並誘導式教導基本的

  • of emotional intelligencewhile there is still time.

    情緒智慧,在還有時間的時候。

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    謝謝收看,請按讚或訂閱

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    如果想要知道更多,來參與課程吧!或是參考我們在畫面上附上的連結

Emotional intelligence is the quality that enables us to confront with patience, insight

情緒智慧是一種能力,幫助我們以耐心、洞察力

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    Ken Song 發佈於 2017 年 11 月 25 日
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