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Hey, it’s Marie Forleo and you are watching MarieTV – the place to be to create a business
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and life you love.
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And I have to say, today you are in for such a treat because my guest is truly a creative
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genius.
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Sarah Jones is a Tony and Obie award winning
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playwright and performer, best known for her multi character, one-woman shows.
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Called a “master of the genre” by the New York Times, Sarah’s work is celebrated
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for its humanitarian approach to character and story through the lens of multiculturalism.
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The daughter of two physicians and the product
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of a multiracial, multi-ethnic family and community, she was interested from an early
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age in both the welfare and cultural backgrounds of her diverse relatives, neighbors, and friends.
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She’s a regular guest on public radio and has appeared on Charlie Rose, the Today Show,
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CBS Sunday Morning, and Sesame Street, as well as in her own special, the Sarah Jones
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Show on Bravo.
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Her three multi-character TED talks have received millions of views and she’s currently developing
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new multimedia projects based on her characters.
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Sarah, I’m so excited to have you here!
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Yay!
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I can’t take it.
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I know we were just talking off camera, this is like the most exciting thing.
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I’ve admired you for so long.
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I told everyone like you are about to witness a creative genius and I am just thrilled that
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you took the time to be here with us today.
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I’m so happy to be here, and the feeling
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is mutual.
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The admiration is mutually long.
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It’s good.
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I’m so happy to be here.
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So let’s take it back to the cornerstone
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of your work, which is really – a piece of it is about being culturally inquisitive.
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And through your wide array of characters you morph across gender and age and ethnic
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barriers.
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Can you share how this all began?
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Well, it’s funny.
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I sort of had no choice in the matter.
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I was born to a multicultural family.
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And, you know, on my father’s side they’re African American, a mix of people from the
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south, there’s some Caribbean roots back there.
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And then on my mom’s side, my grandmother is Irish American and German American.
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And we have both Christians and Jews on that side of the family.
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Yes, we like to say it’s a long story filled with intrigue and interfaith guilt.
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And then we had more relatives from the Caribbean
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from my grandfather.
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So it’s just this sort of – my Thanksgiving table growing up looked like, you know, the
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delegates dining room at the United Nations.
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It was just – in fact, I brought one of the inspiration for my characters is, you
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know, they’re loosely based on people I really know.
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But I do change the names to protect the innocent and especially the guilty.
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But so, you know, picture little me.
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And here I would be.
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Hi, sweetheart.
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Marie, wonderful to meet you and your friends.
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Hi, there.
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And Sarah puts me in her shows, what she calls her one-woman shows.
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And you know what that means.
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That means she takes the credit and makes us come out and do all the work.
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I know you wouldn’t approve of that.
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Anyway, so I know you know these relatives
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of mine, I was sort of marinating in this stew pot of different cultures.
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And for me it was very normal to identify with somebody who didn't look anything like
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me.
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You know, it could be my aunts, my uncles, my cousins, West Indian relatives who talk
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like this and they're all literally sitting around the same table.
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So one is saying, “Can you pass the Gefilte?
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You know, what’s wrong with Thanksgiving Gefilte fish?
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People are looking at me.”
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And the other one, “I don't have a problem
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with white people in principle, but your food, it is so bland.
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You’re killing me right now.
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You’re actually attacking my mouth with this food.”
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So, you know, it was like this … I don't know.
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I just was born into like a dialect, you know, palooza.
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And, again, because for me the family members getting along sort of ran counter to the story
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I was seeing outside my home.
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On the news it was race riots and, you know, these people don't get along with these people
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and they're others and we’re different.
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And my experience was the opposite.
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I mean, we were literally all, you know, had the same blood.
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So I think I wanted to bridge that gap for myself.
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Did you always know that you – like, did
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you perform as a kid?
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You know, I really didn't in a formal way.
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And I was actually a shy kid.
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I had a pretty – I’ll call my childhood colorful.
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It’s a little double meaning there.
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Bad joke.
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You know, we had the multi-culti colorful thing on the one side but it was also … both
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my parents were doctors.
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They were very young when they met.
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And so it was sort of like being raised by two kids, like kids in lab coats.
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And we had babysitters, but I had this experience of feeling like I had to be an adult too.
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Like they weren't home a lot and so I think the characters became sort of like my babysitters.
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They were a way for me to entertain my sisters at the time.
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And I was actually just talking about this
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with Lily Tomlin, who we both love.
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She’s a hero of mine and she’s on my new podcast, which we’ll get to talk about later.
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But we both came by our character performance very similarly, as little kids watching the
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people around us and wanting to have a place to entertain ourselves.
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And the characters kind of made me feel safe.
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Did you always have such an ability and a
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skill around the voices?
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I mean, when I watch you it is miraculous what you’re able to do.
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Thank you for that question.
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I feel like with anyone, you know, you’ve practiced your craft, the ways that you’re
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able to think about, you know, kind of life and business and, you know, connect dots.
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For me I guess my brain was firing on the sound of my relatives all my life, so my ear
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was being trained.
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I’ve heard that it’s akin to music.
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So it’s sort of like if you grew up in a musical family and you’re always hearing
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a tune and you know how to carry one in perfect pitch.
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But for me it was always being able to hear the melodies of these different voices, always
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having the awareness that no matter what the outside world said, we did belong together.
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Because I got a lot of, you know, this was
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before Obama.
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This was a time of, you know, people seeing me and my mom and they would assume who is
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this weird white lady with this little black kid?
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Is she adopted?
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What’s going on?
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So my mom jokes that we should write a book called “We’re Together.”
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Like, because people would always say, “Are you together?
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Are you together?
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Are you together?”
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Like they couldn’t put us together.
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And so I think growing up with that desire to connect, that’s what really fueled the
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training – the unwitting training.
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It was like I was unwittingly sitting in, you know, hours and hours of repetition of
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hearing other people’s accents, hearing their stories, and the cultural specificity.
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And for me, I was just soaking in it and, you know, kind of on record all the time without
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realizing it.
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Yeah.
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And so what was the first time for you that you did like a public performance with – and
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how many characters happened to…?
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There were just a few.
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We may not have space on the couches between you and me.
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We’re gonna be like a 50 person panel with two chairs.
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I love it.
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It’s gonna be fine.
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But I would say the very first one I did in public, like I was doing the thing where I
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would tell my sisters stories at night and I would be English, I’d play the witch and,
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“What do you think my pretty?
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I’ll tell you.”
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And they were like, “Wow.
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This is really intense.
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We’re just trying to go to bed.”
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You know.
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But then later on in terms of actual public
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performance, the first time I kind of branched out I was doing something that felt safe.
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I was doing like a spoken word hip-hop.
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You know, you talk like this at the mic so that your words have a certain rhythm.
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You know, like that type of thing.
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And that was popular in the 90’s.
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And then I realized I had these other voices
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that really wanted to come forth.
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And I was I afraid.
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I thought I would look crazy.
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Again, you know, race stuff is tricky and people would be like, “Why are you talking
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like a white girl or what’s wrong with you?
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You’re not Latina.
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Are you Latina?”
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And I was like, “Well I’m everything.”
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And so I decided to let it be okay to take
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the risk and experiment with these characters.
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And the first one I did was a woman who was homeless.
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Actually, I had seen her, I was going back and forth on the subway, I saw this woman,
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and I thought, “what would I hear if she could actually share something about herself
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instead of being this, you know, ignored … this ‘thing’ on the side that nobody was paying
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attention to?”
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And so I remember kind of watching her and studying her.
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And I was doing a performance one night and this, I said, “I’m gonna do this.
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I’m just gonna see what happens.”
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She didn't have no teeth on the top and her face all messed up.
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And the vain part of me, I said, “what if you wanna date somebody who is in this audience?
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You never gonna get a date again looking like this.”
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But that’s when I realized if I want to embody these people I have to forget myself
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and try to give them some space.
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And that means I might not look pretty for a minute, but I wanted to just imagine what
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would it look like if she had some time to share who she is?
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So that’s what I did.
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And I imagined she would probably yell at people and say, you know, “you ignore me
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and I belong here too.”
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And that’s – I started building this character who gets the ear of a well heeled theater
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audience who would normally walk past her, you know, as though she’s just a piece of
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debris on the sidewalk.
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What would she say to them if she could?
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And so that character, and then did you start
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to just like – was it this creative process of almost seeing someone either out in real
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life or almost hearing them from within?
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Or a combination.
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Both.
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You know, Marie, and I think when I talk to people about the process, I love being able
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to feel that they get it.
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Even if you don't do this yourself, like we’re all creative.
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Right?
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Everybody watching, you, me, we’re all born with this innate creativity.
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And in my case it does happen to come out in the form of feeling into people’s energy.
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I remember my sister was dating a guy – we’re
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from Queens.
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So, you know.
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And when I do – sometimes I’m English.
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You know, like there’s a character in my – I have a show called “Sell By Date”
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and this character is the lead.
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I’m the star.
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Even though as an English person you’re not really meant to admit that you’re the
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center of attention.
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You’re supposed to shrink.
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But I am the star.
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But the thought about that is that, you know,
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English people, wherever we’re from, whatever our background, I joke that, you know, I do
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speak the Queen’s English because I’m from Queens, New York.
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But we had – I had relatives who talk like this.
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You know, and like you had to have your nails done, you had your hair – big hair meant
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something not this, but like something else.
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And, anyway.
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And so, you know, Sa.
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They would call me Sa.
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“Sa, what are you doing?
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What’s happening?”
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And my sister was dating this guy who was an electrician who is, you know, kind of a
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Queens guy, gotta spread my legs out like this.
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And eventually I start, you know, I would just cobble together like these different
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guys, these different people.
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Sounds like somebody I dated, actually.
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You know what?
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I wasn’t there.
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So but these guys, you know, it’s easy to stereotype them or to think you know who they
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are, but I thought these are really multidimensional people and they’re not always the ones who
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are the stars of our films or who we focus on in the culture.
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And so I liked the idea of bringing the marginalized voices more to the center and not just as
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caricatures.
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We all know “hey, hey, that guy.
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Yeah, my cousin Vinny.”
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Nothing wrong with that movie, but the point is, you know, this guy my sister was dating,
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he was a fully fleshed out human being with thoughts and dreams.
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And I just thought, especially for me as an obviously “black from a distance” appearing
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woman, what could be more of an interesting exploration than to take his life and see
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if I could step into his shoes and, you know, maybe paint a more complex portrait of him?
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Did you ever in your own experience thinking