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  • You know, honesty is something that we often regard as a good thing, right?

    誠實常被視為一種美德,對吧?

  • We want our friends to be honest.

    我們希望朋友們誠實。

  • What do you think, is it too much?

    你覺得這穿著如何,會太誇張嗎?

  • That outfit should be burned.

    那件外套應該被燒毀。

  • Because it's so lit!

    因為它太出色了!

  • We want our partners to be honest.

    我們希望搭檔可以誠實。

  • Kelly, um, I want to tell you something, ugh, I'm so nervous.

    Kelly,我想告訴你一件事,嗯,我好緊張。

  • Um, I've never said this to anyone before, but...

    嗯,我從沒對別人說過,但...

  • I love you.

    我愛你。

  • Oh my god, Anna, are you serious?

    天阿,Anna,你是認真的嗎?

  • Yes!

    沒錯!

  • Oh my god, thank you!

    天啊,謝謝你!

  • I don't love you, but, you're great.

    我不愛你,但,你人真的很好。

  • Okay.

    好吧...

  • But sometimes when people are speaking their truth, it feels cruel.

    但有時說出事實,反而顯得殘酷。

  • I was at a gals dinner when a friend said to me:

    有位朋友在女生聚會上對我說:

  • Anna, don't get too drunk.

    Anna,你千萬不要喝醉。

  • You're a loud drunk, and I don't want to have to move.

    妳喝醉時很吵,而且我不想搬妳。

  • And, I mean she's not wrong!

    我的意思是,她說得其實沒錯!

  • When I get drunk I get really loud, I mean to my credit, most people do.

    我喝醉時的確很吵,我敢保證,多數人都是如此。

  • But it felt so mean to me in the moment, even though I know she wasn't trying to hurt my feelings, because it was like what was I supposed to say?

    即便我知道她無心傷害我,但這些話當下聽來非常刺耳,像這種情形我該說什麼?

  • You know, how was I supposed to react?

    我該有什麼反應?

  • There was no way for me to continue the night without just sitting still, and shutting up, and feeling like I can't have fun.

    我不可能整晚只坐在那不說話,覺得自己不該享樂。

  • And it made me wonder:

    這一切讓我不禁思考:

  • Where is the line between being honest and being mean?

    說實話和傷人之間的界線到底在哪?

  • I mean, does it lie in a person's intention?

    是否和說話的人的意圖有關?

  • 'cause I had a guy say to me, verbatim:

    曾經有個男的逐字對我說:

  • Yo, do you like to take a shit before I ate you out yesterday, 'cause your pussy smelled like shit.

    你要不要先大個便,因為昨天幫妳口交,發現妳私密處有屎味。

  • And that is by far, the cruelest fuxxing thing anyone has ever said to me in my entire life.

    而那是目前為止我一生中聽過最殘酷的話,從來沒人對我說過這種話。

  • Especially 'cause he knew I had issues with like letting people go near my vagina, it was like, weird, and it's vulnerable, and it's scary.

    尤其是因為他知道我對於讓別人接近我的私處有所困擾,這件事太奇怪,讓我覺得不堪一擊且害怕。

  • So I was like, why would you say that to me?

    所以,為什麼要對我說這種話?

  • And he genuinely didn't think he was being mean.

    而且他真心覺得自己沒有傷害到我。

  • He thought that he was being honest and straightforward, and that I would appreciate that.

    他認為自己誠實又坦率,而我應該要感謝他。

  • What? I'm just being honest.

    怎樣?我只是實話實說而已。

  • Isn't that what people do when they fall in love?

    相愛的人不就該對彼此誠實嗎?

  • You know, we have all kinds of stupid horrible thoughts every day.

    我們每天都有各式各樣愚蠢又可怕的想法。

  • But that doesn't mean we should articulate every single one of them.

    但這不代表需要將每個想法都講明出來。

  • I mean, every time I have a knife in my hand, I think:

    每次我手中握著刀的時候,我會想:

  • Wow, I could just go crazy and stab all of them right now.

    哇!我現在隨時可以發瘋然後砍光他們。

  • And what would they do?

    他們會有什麼反應?

  • I could just take each of them down.

    我可以砍了他們每一個人。

  • I mean, I won't 'cause I love them.

    我不會真的這麼做,我愛他們。

  • But I totally could, their lives are in my hands, I could just stab and slash and just blow them all away.

    但我完全做得到,他們性命掌握在我手中,只要刺下去砍幾刀,他們全部都會消失。

  • Hmm.

    嗯...

  • But it's not like I'm gonna "be honest" and tell a bunch of people that.

    但,不必為了「誠實」而告訴一堆人這些想法。

  • Guys, isn't it crazy that I could just like, kill all of you right now?

    嘿,如果我現在殺了所有人,是不是很瘋狂?

  • Like, for real though.

    如果我是說真的。

  • Like, none of you have any weapons.

    你們個個手無寸鐵。

  • I could just sprint at you Mary, and slit your throat.

    Mary,我可衝向妳,切開妳的喉嚨。

  • And stab you in the heart, Jenny.

    再刺 Jenny 的心臟。

  • And just like, slash at Kaitlyn, and then rip Melissa's face off, like...

    再砍 Kaitlyn,接著撕爛 Melissa 的臉...

  • And like, what would you do?

    然後你們會怎樣?

  • A bunch of you would die.

    你們一大堆人都會死。

  • Maybe sometimes we're using honesty as an excuse to be an asshole.

    或許有時我們把誠實當作成為混蛋的藉口。

  • And I'm definitely guilty of this for sure, for sure I have done this.

    我對此也有罪惡感,因為我確定我也做過一樣的事。

  • But I genuinely want to stop, like I don't ever want to unnecessarily hurt someone's feelings, just because I feel like I have the right to be straight up with them.

    但我真心的想要停止這種行為,我從來都不想只是因我認為自己有權利對人坦白,而不必要地傷害他人的感覺。

  • And vice versa, if people are being honest with me, I would hope that it comes from like a place of love like someone's telling me that I'm probably dating someone abusive, or that, I'm maybe becoming an alcoholic.

    反過來說,如果別人也對我誠實,我希望他是出自於關愛,譬如告訴我跟我約會的人可能有暴力傾向,或者我快變酒鬼了。

  • I don't want someone to tell me that, in their opinion, I've done something wrong.

    我不希望他們用個人的觀點來指責我做錯了。

  • Because my vagina did not smell like shit and if it did, God forbid, you don't frickin say that to me.

    因為我的私密處聞起來不像大便,假如真是如此,你該死的也不需要跟我說。

  • So I encourage you to think about all the times that you've been honest, and ask yourself, were you actually just being mean?

    所以我鼓勵大家每次說實話前都思考一下,問問自己,你的行為是否只會讓人覺得可惡?

  • Are you ever honest when it's hard, when you have to tell someone a truth that maybe they don't wanna hear, and you don't wanna tell them, not just something that you don't like.

    你是否曾在遇到某件很難啟齒的事情時選擇誠實,那種他們不想聽,你也不想說的事?

  • I'm Anna Akana, stay awesome Gotham.

    我是 Anna Akana,大家保重。

  • Also, thank you so much to Kelly for being in today's video.

    另外,感謝 Kelly 參與今天的影片。

  • You can check out her channel here, she uploads every day, and is a kawaii ambassador.

    這裡可以觀看她的頻道,她每天都會上傳內容,是位可愛大使。

  • Thanks Kelly!

    感謝 Kelly!

  • I really wanna say thank you to Squarespace for sponsoring today's episode.

    非常感謝 Squarespace 贊助今天的節目。

  • Squarespace has a lot of beautiful, award winning templates, not to mention they have an all-in-one platform so there's no installs, patches, or upgrades, ever!

    Squarespace 有許多美麗、深得人心的模板可以使用,更別說整合性的平台讓您不必安裝、使用修補程式或升級。

  • They also have 24-hour customer service.

    還有 24 小時的客服。

  • So if you just like, offed your latest victim and you wanna update your website to alert the police, but you're having technical issues, Squarespace is there for you.

    所以假如你殺了人,想要更新網站告訴警察這件事情但卻遇到技術問題,Squarespace 永遠為您服務。

  • Not to mention, if you need a domain, they offer a very simple, unique set-up experience, it's easy peasy.

    如果您想要由專業團隊為您提供簡單、獨特的網站建立體驗,Squarespace 是很容易上手的。

  • You can get square space for any kind of website, whether you're an artist, a photographer, or a serial killer like me!

    Squarespace 提供您各種網站服務,不管您是藝術家、攝影師或跟我一樣的連環殺手!

  • Go to squarespace.com for your free trial today, and don't forget to use the offer code Anna for ten percent off at checkout.

    今天就去造訪 squarespace.com 吧!結帳的時候記得使用 Anna 的九折優惠碼。

  • Squarespace.

    Squarespace。

You know, honesty is something that we often regard as a good thing, right?

誠實常被視為一種美德,對吧?

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