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  • Chastity: What are the limits?

    貞潔:安全界限在哪?

  • Teenagers sometimes wonder

    青少年常常疑惑

  • They only tell us we shouldn't become sexually involved

    "大家都只告訴我們不應該跟性扯上關係

  • but they never tell us the limits.

    但是他們從不告訴我們到底有哪些安全界限"

  • What are the limits?

    究竟有哪些安全界限呢?

  • The problem of this question is...

    這個問題點在於...

  • that some people think that they identify some certain limits

    有些人以為他們知道這一些安全界限

  • that they can still get as close as to the limits as possible

    所以認為他們能夠盡可能地遊走在安全限制的邊緣

  • and still be okay.

    而不用擔心

  • but like rowing down a river, without knowing about a waterfall ahead

    但是就好像在小河上划船, 你並不知道前方是否會有激流

  • Trying to get close to the limits is NOT a very smart idea.

    試圖要靠近安全界限 不是 一個聰明的主意

  • Consider this analogy.

    想想看這個比喻

  • The story has told a military pilot had flew his airplane in a forest area.

    這個比喻提到有個空軍飛行員開著飛機飛進了森林區

  • Now the military had a rule that says pilots should not fly their planes close to the trees.

    現在空軍有個規定 "飛行員不得將飛機開靠近有樹的地方"

  • It's pretty obvious why.

    很明顯我們都知道為什麼.

  • When you arrive, and you will crash the air plane.

    因為你可能會造成飛機失事

  • So a sailor tries to see how close to the trees he could get.

    所以飛行員需要去了解他能夠多靠近那些樹木

  • This pilot sets a rule for himself.

    所以飛行員會為自己設立一條規定

  • that he will stay at least 500 fts above the trees.

    通常他們會保持在有樹木的地方上空至少五百呎高

  • In this way, he kept himself much safer.

    如此一來,他能保證自己比較安全一些。

  • Just as a pilot can crash to the trees,

    正如同飛行員會在有樹木的地方失事

  • we know that our emotion damages and other problems

    我們也知道在婚姻以外發生了肉體的親密關係時

  • come from sharing physical intimacies outside of marriage.

    會造成感情的傷害與其他問題

  • So instead of trying to ask what are the limits,

    所以我們不試著去問到底安全界限在哪

  • we should follow standards that will keep us safe.

    我們反而覺得我們應該遵守能確保我們安全的標準

  • For the strength of Youth provides this valuable standard.

    鞏固青年 為我們提供了一項珍貴的標準

  • Before marriage, do not do anything to arouse the powerful emotion

    在結婚以前, 我們不要做任何

  • that must be expressed only in marriage.

    有可能會挑起只能在婚姻內能表達的強烈情感的事

  • In addition to For the Strength of Youth,

    除了 鞏固青年以外,

  • listen to specific things we should not do.

    也該聽聽我們不應該做的事情有哪些

  • It says,

    有以下幾點,

  • Do not participate in passionate kissing.

    不要激情熱吻

  • Lying on top of another person.

    不要躺在另外一個人的身上

  • Touch the private sacred parts of another person's body

    不要碰觸他人的私處

  • with or without clothing.

    不管有沒有穿上衣物都不行

  • Or allow anyone to do that to you.

    也不要讓任何人對你做以上的任何一件事

  • Now those things are like flying in the trees.

    這些事情就好比在樹林中飛行

  • They all might be like flying 500 fts above the trees.

    他們就都好像是在樹林上方五百呎高飛行的規定

  • Here is one idea that could be helpful.

    這裡有個可能有用的想法

  • Only do things you will feel comfortable doing

    只做那些在你父母親面前

  • in the presence of your parents.

    你不會感到不自在的事情

  • For example, a 15-year-old could ask.

    例如,十五歲的孩子可能會問

  • "Is it okay for me to hold hands?"

    "我們牽手這樣恰當嗎?"

  • But maybe the question should be

    但也許問題應該是

  • "Will I hold hands in front of my parents?"

    "我會在我父母面前牽手嗎?"

  • You can set standards that will help you to stay pure.

    你可以建立能幫助你保持純潔的標準

  • Elder Richard G. Scott said,

    李察‧司考德長老說,

  • "Firmly established personal standards

    "穩固地建立個人標準

  • choose a time of deep spiritual reflection

    選定一個你沒有任何壓力

  • when there's no pressure on you.

    並且能夠深深思考靈性

  • And you can confirm your decisions

    且能藉由聖靈的啟發

  • by impressions that will come to you from the Holy Ghost.

    讓你能確認你的決定的時間

  • Decide then what you will do and

    之後再決定為了表達感覺,你會做的事

  • what you will not do to express feelings.

    以及你不會做的事

  • The spirit will guide you.

    聖靈會帶領你

  • Then do not vary from those decisions

    之後就算誘惑來臨時

  • no matter how that may seem when the temptation comes."

    都不要改變這些決定"

  • Consider talking with your parents to leaders

    你可以跟你的父母一起找領袖

  • about your standards and seek their additional guidance.

    談談關於你的標準並且尋求他們額外的指引

  • Pray and ask Heavenly Father

    祈禱並向天父求問

  • about the standards you have set for yourself.

    關於你為你自己所設立的標準

  • When you feel the Holy Ghost confirm your standards,

    當你感覺到聖靈確認你的標準時,

  • you have greater power to live them.

    你就會有更大的力量去遵從這些標準

  • Now let's review what we have discussed.

    現在,我們複習一下我們剛剛談到的

  • Prophets have clearly taught us how to stay sexually pure.

    先知已明確的教導我們如何保持性的純潔

  • They have given us this standard.

    他們已經給予我們這項標準

  • Before marriage, do not do anything to arouse the powerful emotion

    在結婚以前, 我們不要做任何

  • that must be expressed only in marriage.

    有可能會挑起只能在婚姻內能表達的強烈情感的事

  • Just as the wise pilot keeps himself far from the trees,

    正如同聰明的飛行員會讓自己遠離樹木,

  • we should not get close to sin.

    我們也不該靠近罪惡.

  • You can pray and talk with God

    你能祈禱並且向神訴說

  • about personal standards you set for yourself.

    你已為自己所設立的標準

  • Take the time you need to really be guided by the Spirit.

    花一些時間讓自己能夠真正的獲得聖靈的指引

  • Once you set clear standards, never deviate from them.

    一旦你建立明確的標準, 就絕對不要偏離

  • And don't let what has happened in the past control your future.

    並且不要讓過去已發生的事情掌控你的未來

  • If you straighten the past, you can return.

    只要你整頓過去, 你必能回歸真道

  • In a world that's full of temptation,

    在這一個充滿誘惑的世界中,

  • it can be challenging to stay virtuous.

    要一直保有品格會是一件相當具有挑戰性的事情

  • but it's worth it.

    但這值得付出一切努力

  • When you obey God's commandments with sexually pure,

    當你遵守神的誡命,保有性的純潔,

  • you prepare yourself to make

    你會準備好自己在聖殿中

  • and keep sacred covenants in the temple.

    訂立並遵守聖約

  • You prepare yourself to build a strong marriage

    你會準備好自己著手建立堅強的婚姻

  • and to bring children to the world as part of this loving family.

    並養兒育女將他們帶到這個充滿愛的家庭

  • When we look at the big picture,

    當我們看著這幅大的圖片時,

  • it's easy to realize that it's worth it

    很容易就能理解,值得付出一切努力

  • to keep God's commandments to be sexually pure.

    去遵守神的誡命並保有性的純潔,

Chastity: What are the limits?

貞潔:安全界限在哪?

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