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I've always been the type of lady to go after what I want.
我一直是個會去勇敢追愛的女人
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Aye boy, you wanna, you wanna, I got you a present.
嘿,想要...想要嗎? 我有個禮物要送你
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You good looking boy you wanna come home with me?
小帥哥,你想跟我回家嗎?
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Can I be your mom?
我可不可以當你馬麻?
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Look, if, if I were you mom, I'd shower you with gifts.
瞧,如果我是你馬麻,我什麼都可以買給你
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Come on! Hey, hey, come here!
理我一下嘛!嘿,來我這裡!
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I was talking to a friend the other day,
前幾天我跟一個朋友聊天
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who told me,
她跟我說
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I have been trying to send him signals,
我一直暗示他很久了
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but I just don't think he's picking up on them.
但他好像都沒有懂我的暗示
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Why don't you just ask him out?
你幹嘛不直接約他出去?
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Good one.
好主意!
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Oh, you're serious.
喔,你是認真的啊!
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Oh, no, no. I can't do that.
噢!不,我沒辦法那樣啦
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Why?
為什麼?
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Well, I mean...
唉唷,我就...
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Now, I've always aggressively chased the boys that I've liked.
我總是很主動去追我喜歡的男生
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When I was a kid,
我還小的時候
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I would make it abundantly clear if I like-liked you.
我會很直接了當的讓你知道我很喜歡你
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(To Devin)
(給Devin)
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(I like-like you. If you like-like me back buy me a pizza.)
(我很喜歡你。如果你也很喜歡我的話,請我吃片披薩吧!)
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As an adult, my habits haven't really changed.
長大後,我還是沒有改掉我的習慣
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That's a cute picture of me huh.
我在照片裡長的挺可愛的吧!
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I was a kid, yeah. Good-looker.
我還很嫩,是個小正咩
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But I've been surprised to find out that
但我很驚訝地發現
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a lot of my female friends are very reluctant to ask guys out.
我的女性友人們都非常被動
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When I ask them about it, they have all kinds of excuses.
每次談論到這種事情,她們總能掰出各種藉口
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I don' know. Guys love to chase.
我不知道欸,男生就是喜歡主動啦
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I'm not aggro like you, Anna.
我又不像妳這個猛姐,Anna
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I don't think I can handle that kind of rejection.
我怕我沒辦法承受被拒絕的壓力
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So ladies, I have three very good reasons why you should ask the next guy out.
女孩們,讓我分享三個我們該主動追愛的好理由
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One. What's the worst that could happen?
首先,還有什麼會是更糟的情況?
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He says no.
他直接打槍妳
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So What? Rejection is not the end of the world.
那又怎樣? 被拒絕又不是世界末日
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And that kind of pressure is something that
而且這種怕被拒絕的壓力
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guys face every single time they wanna ask a woman out.
是男生每次約女生時都會有的
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Two. Time.
第二,把握時間
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I don't know about you,
我不知道你的情況是怎樣
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but when I'm crushing on someone
但我自己煞到某人的時候
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I waste so much time fantasizing about what their butts looks like.
我浪費超多時間在那邊幻想他們的屁屁長什麼樣子
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Just ask them out. Get some answers. Get that butt.
直接去搭訕他們吧!碰碰運氣,妳說不定就不用再幻想半天了!
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Three. Missed opportunities.
第三,不要錯失良機
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Look, putting yourself out there and putting your feelings out there
我知道,要你直接豁出去,直接跟人家表白
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is very vulnerable, and scary. It's a hard thing to do.
很容易讓自己受傷,聽起來很嚇人,的確是件困難的事
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But some guys are maybe too shy to ever do that.
可是有些男生可能太害羞,根本不敢主動表白
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So imagine, all of the missed loves that you never had because you're both too afraid to approach each other.
你想想看,有多少愛情,全是因為彼此都不敢跨出第一步而錯過的
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Plus, think about how much easier this would make the whole dating process.
而且,想想你主動出擊的話,會為整個約會的過程省去很多麻煩
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If you aren't asking people out, you're basically sitting around, waiting for someone to come find you.
如果你不主動出擊,你就只能空坐在那,等待別人上門
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You wanna know how Brad and I started dating?
你想知道我是怎麼開始跟Brad談戀愛的嗎?
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I asked him out.
我直接去搭訕他
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I hit him up on Facebook.
我在臉書上敲他
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and I said, "Hey, I think you're cute and I'd like to take you out to dinner."
跟他說,嘿,我覺得你很可愛,想邀你共進晚餐
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And we ended up chatting about his childhood ferrets til 4 a.m.
結果最後我們聊他小時候養的雪貂聊到凌晨四點
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But, I've also been rejected, a lot,
不過,我也被拒絕過非常多次
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throughout the years by guys who, either didn't like how
多年來有男生不喜歡我如此地
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aggressive I was or didn't like me as a person
主動或不喜歡我這個人本身
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or didn't find me attractive or, I don't know.
或是覺得我不夠正,或其他我不知道的原因
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They don't always tell me.
不是每個人都會告訴我為什麼
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So, who knows?
所以,誰知道會發生什麼事呢?
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Go out there, lady friends.
勇敢去追愛吧,女孩兒們!
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I implore you.
拜託妳
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And the next time you see a cutie,
下次遇到帥哥的時候
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hit him up.
直接去搭訕他吧!
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I'd like to ask you out, um, with this, here.
我想要約你出去,你看這個
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That's present for you, cause I think you're real cute,
這禮物送你,因為我覺得你有夠可愛的
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and I wanna show you that I like you,
我想讓你知道我喜歡你
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and I want to cuddle.
而且我想依偎在你身旁
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Thanks so much for Loot Crate for sponsoring today's video.
感謝Loot Crate贊助今天的影片
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For those of you who don't know, Loot Crate creates cool subscription boxes
沒聽過這家公司的人,Loot Crate 專門打造酷炫的訂閱禮物盒
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and have a new theme every month.
每月都會有新的主題
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It's like a surprise present to yourself, or to your kitties.
這就像買個驚喜包送給你自己或是你的貓咪
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You have until the 19th of the month to order
每月的19號以前都可以預訂
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because they all ship out at the end of the month.
因為他們在月底才出貨
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and you can order just one crate,
你可以只訂一盒
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or subscribe to the gift that keeps on giving.
或是享有續訂的優惠
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So I got December's galaxy theme to Loot Pets box,
像我就拿到了十二月的寵物禮盒,主題是銀河
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which, I've never unboxed anything before,
我從來沒有開箱過
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so this is exciting.
好刺激啊!
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Aw that's cute!
這好可愛哦!
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Uh, that came with galactic snaps. Freeze-dried beef liver snacks for dogs.
這裡有銀河脆條,狗狗專屬的冷凍乾燥牛肝點心
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I've got four cats, so maybe they can eat that even though they're not dogs.
我有四隻貓,雖然是狗食,但牠們應該可以吃吧
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Oh, they got a pet collar.
哦,還有寵物項圈
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That looks kinda futuristic.
看起來蠻有未來感的
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We got a new bowl.
我們有新的碗了!
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That's perfect cause we have broke a bowl the other day.
來得真巧,因為我們最近才剛摔破一個碗
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It's a Firefly Troublemaker ceramic pet bowl. Very cool.
這碗叫做螢火蟲麻煩製造者。酷斃了!
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Oh my god, this is a sweater. Is this a sweater?
天啊,是件毛衣。這是件毛衣嗎?
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It's a tank top. Oh my god!
是件坦克背心,我的天呀!
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They have their own magazine, and it's a Pug.
還有公司出品的雜誌,封面是巴哥犬
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January's theme is invasion.
一月份的主題是入侵
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You can sign up by clicking on the link below in my video description.
想訂閱的話,可以點影片底下的網址前往註冊
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And don't forget to sign up by the 19th at 9pm Pacific to get January's crate.
別忘了,記得在1月19號,太平洋時間晚上九點前訂閱,才能得到1月份的禮物盒喔