Instead of worrying about how to make yourself feel comfortable,

不用去擔心你該怎麼做才會覺得舒服

shift your attitude to focus on making the people around you feel comfortable.

你反而該轉移重點到如何讓你身旁的人感到舒服

How To Impress Everyone You Meet

如何留下好印象

Approaching People

主動接近人群

If you're on your own at a party, join groups of three or more that typically more open to a new person.

如果你在派對上落單，加入三個人以上的談話，這種談話會比較開放讓其他人加入

Good job!

做得好！

When it's just two people, an unexpected third can feel like a crowd.

只有兩個人在聊天時，突然蹦出第三個人會顯得太擁擠

Don't wait for people to approach you. Approach them!

別光等別人接近你，主動接近其他人吧！

Smile warmly, stand up straight, and make eye contact.

記得友善地微笑，站得挺一點，要有眼神接觸

Good things come to those who initiate.

好事總會發生在主動的人身上

Here! Have a beer!

來吧！喝杯啤酒！

Remember these words.

記住這句話

"So how about you?"

「那麼你呢？」

Invite them to tell you about themselves.

讓他們對你聊些有關自己的事

And to go in that direction that they're excited to go in.

依著他們，聊他們喜歡聊的東西

Well, this is awkward.

呃，這下尷尬了

One easy remedy for an awkward silence is food.

有個補救尷尬場面的救星：食物

Recipes, diets, restaurants. Everyone has something to say about food.

食譜、減肥餐、餐廳等等，對於食物每個人都有些話可以說

On The Phone

電話面試時

Stand and smile on phone interviews.

電話面試時，記得站好且保持微笑

This improves the quality of your voice, and will make you sound more confident.

這可以改善你的語氣，讓你聽起來更有自信

Hello!

哈囉你好！

Wait three seconds before answering questions.

回答問題前先停個三秒

It helps you process the question and you won't seem rushed or nervous.

這能幫助你思考問題，你也不會顯得太著急或是很緊張

In A Circle

一群人聊天時

When standing in a circle of people, open it up to allow a new person in.

當你和一群人一起聊天時，主動讓其他人加入談話

You'll make a great impression on that person, and on the other people in the circle.

你會在那個人及其他人面前留下好的印象

Make a graceful exit.

優雅地離場

My mom plays ice hockey.

我媽會打冰上曲棍球

Wow!

哇！

When exiting a conversation, interrupt yourself, not them.

當你想離開一場談話時，中斷自己的話，而不是別人的

Make it clear that you enjoy the conversation, and that you have a reason for leaving.

你要向大家表明你很喜歡這次的聊天，然後你離開是有原因的

...but I have to go to work. But it was great to meet you.

但我得工作了，很高興認識你們

Great meeting you.

很開心認識你

See ya!

下次見囉！

Nice guy!

滿不錯的人！

What a gentleman!

真是個紳士！

If I had a daughter, I would let her date him.

如果我有女兒的話，我一定讓他們兩個約會

Oh my god! I was like "what we're gonna talk about?"

天啊！剛剛感覺就像是「我們到底要聊什麼東西？」

Sandwiches come flying out of nowhere.

三明治不知道從哪飛出來的

Yeah!

對阿！