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Meeting new people can be intimidating.
認識新朋友可能是件很可怕的事
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Instead of worrying about how to make yourself feel comfortable,
不用去擔心你該怎麼做才會覺得舒服
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shift your attitude to focus on making the people around you feel comfortable.
你反而該轉移重點到如何讓你身旁的人感到舒服
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How To Impress Everyone You Meet
如何留下好印象
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Approaching People
主動接近人群
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If you're on your own at a party, join groups of three or more that typically more open to a new person.
如果你在派對上落單,加入三個人以上的談話,這種談話會比較開放讓其他人加入
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Good job!
做得好!
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When it's just two people, an unexpected third can feel like a crowd.
只有兩個人在聊天時,突然蹦出第三個人會顯得太擁擠
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Don't wait for people to approach you. Approach them!
別光等別人接近你,主動接近其他人吧!
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Smile warmly, stand up straight, and make eye contact.
記得友善地微笑,站得挺一點,要有眼神接觸
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Good things come to those who initiate.
好事總會發生在主動的人身上
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Here! Have a beer!
來吧!喝杯啤酒!
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Remember these words.
記住這句話
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"So how about you?"
「那麼你呢?」
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Invite them to tell you about themselves.
讓他們對你聊些有關自己的事
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And to go in that direction that they're excited to go in.
依著他們,聊他們喜歡聊的東西
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Well, this is awkward.
呃,這下尷尬了
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One easy remedy for an awkward silence is food.
有個補救尷尬場面的救星:食物
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Recipes, diets, restaurants. Everyone has something to say about food.
食譜、減肥餐、餐廳等等,對於食物每個人都有些話可以說
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On The Phone
電話面試時
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Stand and smile on phone interviews.
電話面試時,記得站好且保持微笑
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This improves the quality of your voice, and will make you sound more confident.
這可以改善你的語氣,讓你聽起來更有自信
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Hello!
哈囉你好!
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Wait three seconds before answering questions.
回答問題前先停個三秒
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It helps you process the question and you won't seem rushed or nervous.
這能幫助你思考問題,你也不會顯得太著急或是很緊張
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In A Circle
一群人聊天時
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When standing in a circle of people, open it up to allow a new person in.
當你和一群人一起聊天時,主動讓其他人加入談話
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You'll make a great impression on that person, and on the other people in the circle.
你會在那個人及其他人面前留下好的印象
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Make a graceful exit.
優雅地離場
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My mom plays ice hockey.
我媽會打冰上曲棍球
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Wow!
哇!
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When exiting a conversation, interrupt yourself, not them.
當你想離開一場談話時,中斷自己的話,而不是別人的
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Make it clear that you enjoy the conversation, and that you have a reason for leaving.
你要向大家表明你很喜歡這次的聊天,然後你離開是有原因的
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...but I have to go to work. But it was great to meet you.
但我得工作了,很高興認識你們
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Great meeting you.
很開心認識你
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See ya!
下次見囉!
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Nice guy!
滿不錯的人!
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What a gentleman!
真是個紳士!
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If I had a daughter, I would let her date him.
如果我有女兒的話,我一定讓他們兩個約會
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Oh my god! I was like "what we're gonna talk about?"
天啊!剛剛感覺就像是「我們到底要聊什麼東西?」
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Sandwiches come flying out of nowhere.
三明治不知道從哪飛出來的
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Yeah!
對阿!