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In his Meditations, Marcus Aurelius talks about mornings twice.
在他的《沉思錄》中,馬庫斯-奧勒留兩次談到了早晨。
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Once at the beginning of book 2 and once at the beginning of book 5.
在第二冊的開頭和第五冊的開頭各一次。
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Here are the quotes.
以下是報價。
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Pause the video if you really wanna read them.
暫停視頻,如果你真的想讀他們。
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But essentially, Marcus tells himself to do one thing each morning and that is:
但本質上,馬庫斯告訴自己每天早上要做一件事,那就是。
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negative visualization.
消極的視覺化。
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Negative visualization is when you set a goal, imagine all of the obstacles that can get
消極可視化是指當你設定一個目標時,想象所有的障礙,可以得到
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in your way, and then come up with a plan to deal with those obstacles.
擋在你面前的障礙,然後提出一個計劃來處理這些障礙。
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For example, let's say you start the day with the goal of finishing a big homework
例如,假設你在開始一天的工作時,目標是完成一個大作業
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assignment.
任務。
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At the beginning of the day, you imagine all of the obstacles that can come in your way:
在一天的開始,你想象著所有可能會遇到的障礙。
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you might get distracted by your phone, you might feel tired, you may have other assignments
你可能會因為手機而分心,你可能會感到疲憊,你可能會有其他的任務。
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to work on, so on and so forth.
要努力,如此等等。
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And then you come up with a plan to overcome all of the obstacles: you might put your phone
然後你想出了一個克服所有障礙的計劃:你可能會把你的手機
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on do not disturb and put it away so that you're not distracted.
開啟 "請勿打擾",並將其收起,以免你分心。
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You might take a nap or have a cup of coffee so you won't be tired.
你可以睡個午覺或者喝杯咖啡,這樣你就不會累了。
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And you create a schedule for when you'll complete all your other homework, so that
你要為你完成其他功課的時間制定一個時間表,這樣一來
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way you can free your mind to focus on the current one.
的方式,你可以解放你的思想,專注於當前的。
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But let's even take it a step further by looking at a new example.
但是,我們甚至再進一步看一個新的例子。
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So your goal is to ace your calculus class, but you doubt you'll be able to finish your
所以,你的目標是在微積分課上取得好成績,但你懷疑自己是否能完成你的
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upcoming assignment.
即將到來的任務。
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You simply have too many other classes and more important assignments to do.
你只是有太多的其他課程和更重要的作業要做。
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So the first obstacle is finishing the assignment.
所以第一個障礙就是完成任務。
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But if you can't finish the assignment, you're probably going to feel guilty, and
但是,如果你不能完成任務,你可能會感到內疚,而且。
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this will be your second obstacle.
這將是你的第二個障礙。
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And the third obstacle will be your lingering fear that your grades are slipping in the
而第三個障礙將是你揮之不去的恐懼,你的成績在下滑。
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class.
類。
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Now let's come up with a plan for dealing with these obstacles.
現在,讓我們來制定一個應對這些障礙的計劃。
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For the first obstacle, we decide that we'll finish the assignment if we have extra time
對於第一個障礙,我們決定,如果有多餘的時間,我們就完成任務
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after completing our other ones.
在完成我們其他的之後。
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We give it a place in our todo list.
我們把它放在我們的待辦事項清單中。
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We might not get to it, but we'll try.
我們可能不會得到它,但我們會嘗試。
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For the second obstacle, we just need to remind ourselves of the reality of things.
對於第二個障礙,我們只需要提醒自己面對現實的事情。
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We have too many classes and assignments to do, and so we have to prioritize them in order
我們有太多的課程和作業要做,所以我們要釐清輕重緩急,以備不時之需
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of importance.
的重要性。
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This calculus assignment is not as important as the other ones we're doing, so it's
這個微積分作業沒有我們正在做的其他作業那麼重要,所以是
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okay to let it fall to the wayside.
好吧,讓它落到邊上。
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On top of that, we make a commitment to take a review and study the solutions the teacher
在此基礎上,我們做出承諾,對老師的解決方案進行復習和研究。
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will upload later in the week, that way we're not missing the information for the test.
將在本週晚些時候上傳,這樣我們就不會錯過測試的資訊。
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Then to deal with the third obstacle, we make a commitment to get ahead on the next assignment.
然後為了應對第三個障礙,我們做出承諾,在下一個任務中取得領先。
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That way we know we'll pick up the slack in the future and prevent our grades from
這樣我們就知道以後會拾遺補缺,防止我們的成績因
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slipping too much.
滑得太厲害了。
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But let's take it another step forward with another example.
但我們再舉一個例子,再往前推一步。
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Your goal is to make a living for yourself, and right now you're flunking your college
你的目標是為自己謀生,而現在你的大學成績不及格
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courses.
課程:
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So you're first major obstacle is getting good grades.
所以,你的第一個主要障礙是獲得好成績。
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Your plan is to get a tutor and spend more time in the library studying, instead of studying
你的計劃是請個家教,花更多的時間在圖書館學習,而不是學習。
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at home.
在家裡。
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The second major obstacle is the fact that you might actually flunk out of school.
第二大障礙是,你可能真的會從學校退學。
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If that happens, your plan is to go to trade school instead, to have a back up career.
如果這樣,你的計劃是改去讀職業學校,以備備份職業。
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In the event that trade school doesn't work out, you come up with a list of the highest
在貿易學校不成功的情況下,你拿出一份最高的
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paying careers that don't require any education past high school and keep that aside as a
不需要高中以上任何教育的高薪職業,並將其放在一邊,作為一個。
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back up plan.
備份計劃。
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There are at least three major benefits to doing negative visualization.
做負面視覺化至少有三大好處。
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The first major benefit is that it helps you see how bad things can get.
第一大好處是,它可以幫助你看到事情會變得多麼糟糕。
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If you imagine the worst possible scenario, that might motivate you to keep working to
如果你想象最壞的情況,這可能會激勵你繼續努力,以達到最壞的效果。
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avoid it.
避開它。
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And the second reason to use negative visualization is that it allows you to be proactive by anticipating
而使用消極視覺化的第二個原因是,它可以讓你通過預測來主動地進行
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obstacles, and getting ready to act in a productive and useful way.
障礙,並準備以富有成效和有用的方式採取行動。
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If things go wrong, you're ready to deal with them instead of being taken by surprise.
如果事情出了問題,你要做好處理的準備,而不是措手不及。
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If things go right, then you're still good to go.
如果事情順利,那你還是可以的。
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But I think the biggest benefit by far is this: it allows you to leverage human psychology
但我認為到目前為止,最大的好處是:它可以讓你利用人類的心理學
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to your benefit.
對你有利。
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So imagine a vertical line with a dot in the centre.
所以想象一條豎線,中間有一個點。
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Let's mark off the centre axis with a dashed line: this represents your normal state, not
讓我們用虛線在中軸線上做個標記:這代表了你的正常狀態,而非
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happy or sad, just neutral.
快樂或悲傷,只是中性。
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Let's say you make $70 000 a year, that's your normal financial state.
比如說你年薪7萬,這就是你正常的財務狀態。
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And suddenly, you get a raise to $80 000 a year.
忽然間,你的年薪就漲到了8萬元。
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So now your current state, represented by the dot, moves above your normal state.
所以現在你的當前狀態,由點代表,移動到你的正常狀態之上。
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This will make you really happy for a bit, but soon you'll adjust and get used to it.
這會讓你真的開心一下,但很快你就會調整和習慣。
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$80 000 will become your new normal, and will be the point at which you feel neutral.
8萬美元將成為你的新常態,也將是你感覺中性的點。
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Now let's say you get a new job that pays $70 000 again, now you move below your new
現在假設你又找到了一份新的工作,工資70000元,現在你的工資低於你的新工作。
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normal of $80 000 and feel sad, but your feelings will adjust again and $70 000 will once again
8萬元的正常水準,感到悲傷,但你的感情會再次調整,7萬元將再次
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become your new normal.
成為你的新常態。
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The same thing will happen if you get a new car.
如果你買了新車,同樣的事情也會發生。
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You'll feel happy for a bit, but your feelings will once again adjust and it won't make
你會感覺到高興一下,但你的感覺會再次調整,不會使
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you as happy anymore.
你作為快樂了。
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This process is referred to as hedonic adaptation, and we often talking about it in negative
這個過程被稱為享樂適應,我們經常用消極的方式來談論它。
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terms.
術語:
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We talk about how the same amount of money, things, likes, views, etc don't make us
我們談論的是同樣的錢、物、喜歡、瀏覽量等,並不能讓我們成為
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happy anymore, and that we always need more and more.
幸福了,我們總是需要更多更多。
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But there's actually a positive aspect to hedonic adaptation, and that's what negative
但其實享樂式的適應也有積極的一面,這就是消極的
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visualization allows you to do.
可視化讓你可以做到。
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With this animation, I showed that the feeling of happiness is actually the gap between your
通過這個動畫,我展示了幸福感其實就是你的差距。
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expectations, the dashed line, and your current reality, the dot.
期望,虛線,和你目前的現實,點。
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The goal with negative visualization is to keep your expectations as low as possible,
消極可視化的目標是讓你的期望值儘可能的低。
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to keep the dashed line as low as possible, that way the gap between your reality and
虛線要儘可能的低,這樣你的現實和你的現實之間的差距就會越來越大。
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your expectations is as big as you can possibly make it, in a positive way.
你的期望值有多大,你就有多大,以積極的方式。
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This is what minimalists do.
這就是極簡主義者的做法。
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If you can learn to live and make peace with only a few number of items in your life, all
如果你能學會生活,並與你的生活中只有幾個項目和平相處,所有的
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of the extra stuff you get is just a benefit.
額外的東西,你得到的只是一個好處。
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If you can learn to live and make peace with a limited salary, all of the extra raises
如果你能學會在有限的工資中安分守己,所有額外的加薪
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you get are just bonus upside.
你得到的只是獎金的上漲。
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If you can learn to live with and make peace with the worst possible scenarios in your
如果你能學會與最壞的情況和平共處的話
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life, everything beyond that is upside and benefit.
生活,除此之外的一切都有上升空間和利益。
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In other words, learn to keep your expectations low, but try to let your reality exceed that.
換句話說,要學會把自己的期望值壓低,但要儘量讓自己的現實超出這個期望值。
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So the negative visualization cycle looks like this: set a goal, anticipate the obstacles,
所以,消極的可視化循環是這樣的:設定目標,預估障礙。
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and come up with a plan for how you'll deal with them.
並想出一個計劃,你將如何處理他們。
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So what was Marcus' goal?
那麼馬庫斯的目標是什麼?
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In essence, it was to live with justice and piety, but to understand this, you have to
本質上,是要以正義和虔誠的態度生活,但要理解這一點,你要
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understand his worldview.
瞭解他的世界觀。
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He believed that we were all parts of a whole, in the same way a finger is a part of the
他認為,我們都是一個整體的一部分,就像手指是一個整體的一部分一樣。
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body or a tree is a part of a forest.
體或一棵樹是森林的一部分。
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What's good for the part is good for the whole and vice verse, or what's good for
局部的好,就是整體的好,反之亦然,或者說,什麼是好的?
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the finger is good for the hand and what's good for the tree is good for the forest.
手指是好的,樹上的東西就是森林的好。
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He sees everything as interdependent and that what's truly good is good for all the parts
他認為萬事萬物都是相互依存的,真正好的東西對所有的部分都有好處。
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and wholes equally.
和整體平等。
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He believes that every individual has a duty to fulfill, and the best thing anyone can
他認為,每一個人都有責任去履行,而每個人都能做的最好的事情就是
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do is fulfill that duty.
做的就是履行這個職責。
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And practically speaking, Marcus was the emperor of Rome and he had a duty to fulfil to the
而實際上,馬庫斯是羅馬的皇帝,他有責任去履行他的職責。
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people, and he kept this in mind on a daily basis.
人,他每天都牢記這一點。
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So now that we know his goal, let's take a look at how he utilized negative visualization.
現在我們知道了他的目標,讓我們來看看他是如何利用負面視覺化的。
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At the beginning of book 2, Marcus reminds himself in the morning that he will meet people
在第二冊的開頭,馬庫斯在早晨提醒自己,他將會遇到人
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who are going to bug him.
誰要竊聽他。
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He says they are, “meddling, ungrateful, arrogant, dishonest, jealous, and surly.”
他說他們是,"多管閒事,忘恩負義,傲慢無禮,不誠實,嫉妒,和暴躁"。
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He fears that these people will make him neglect his duty, and he worries that he'll become
他怕這些人讓他失職,他擔心自己會變得。
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angry towards them.
對他們很生氣。
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And so here we see the obstacles in Marcus' way: annoying people, neglecting his duty,
於是在這裡,我們看到了馬庫斯前進道路上的障礙:惹人厭煩,玩忽職守。
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and becoming angry or resentful.
而變得憤怒或怨恨。
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So what's Marcus' plan for dealing with these obstacles?
那麼馬庫斯有什麼計劃來應對這些障礙呢?
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He uses a series of reminders.
他用一系列的提醒。
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He reminds himself that these people act this way out of ignorance: they don't know any
他提醒自己,這些人這樣的行為是出於無知:他們不知道任何的
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better.
更好的。
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He reminds himself that they're doing more harm to themselves than they are to him by
他提醒自己,他們對自己的傷害比對他的傷害更大,因為
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acting like that.
這樣的行為。
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He also reminds himself that the actions of these individuals can't stop him from acting
他也提醒自己,這些人的行為不能阻止他的行動
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however he wants and still fulfilling his duty.
無論他怎麼想,還是履行自己的職責。
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His own duty is always in his control to fulfill.
他自己的職責總是在他的控制下完成。
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And lastly he reminds himself, “Nor can I be angry with my kinsman or hate him.
最後他還提醒自己:"我也不能對我的親人生氣,也不能恨他。
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We were born for cooperation, like feet, like hands, like eyelids, like the rows of upper
我們生來就是為合作而生的,像腳,像手,像眼皮,像上排的
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and lower teeth.”
和下牙。"
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So he tells himself that even though they will annoy him, it's because they don't
所以他告訴自己,雖然他們會煩他,但那是因為他們不懂。
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know any better and that he still needs to cooperate and love them instead of being resentful.
知道再多,他還是需要配合和愛他們,而不是怨天尤人。
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What's best for everyone is cooperation.
對大家來說,最好的就是合作。
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Marcus routinely uses reminders to overcome the obstacles.
馬庫斯經常用提醒來克服障礙。
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He's another example.
他是另一個例子。
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At the beginning of book 5, Marcus tells himself that he'll have trouble waking up in the
在第5冊的開頭,馬庫斯告訴自己,他將很難在醒過來。
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mornings.
早晨。
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He identifies a few obstacles that he'll encounter: the bed will feel really nice,
他確定了自己會遇到的幾個障礙:床的感覺會非常好。
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he'll be really lazy, and he'll have excuses for himself to stay in bed.
他就會很懶,他就會給自己找藉口賴床。
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And again, Marcus uses some reminders to overcome these obstacles.
而馬庫斯又用一些提醒來克服這些障礙。
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He reminds himself that he's not meant to “feel nice”.
他提醒自己,他不是為了 "感覺良好"。
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He has a duty to fulfil to the world—a duty only he can fulfill.
他有責任向世界履行--只有他能履行的責任。
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He reminds himself that every other animal has gotten up to do their duty this morning,
他提醒自己,其他動物今天早上都已經起床盡責了。
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including the bees, the birds, and the plants.
包括蜜蜂、鳥類和植物。
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They are all contributing to the community that they are apart of.
他們都在為自己所處的社會做貢獻。
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So Marcus scolds himself for his laziness.
所以馬庫斯罵自己懶惰。
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He asks himself why he should lie around and neglect his duty when all of the other animals
他問自己,為什麼要躺在這裡,而忽視了自己的職責,而其他動物都是
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have gotten up and started doing theirs?
起身開始做自己的事?
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So I'll leave you with this: every day is the beginning of a new journey.
所以,我給你留下一句話:每一天都是新的旅程的開始。
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It's a chance to go in a new direction or destination, to move further ahead than we
這是一個機會,可以去一個新的方向或目的地,比我們走得更遠。
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are today.
是今天。
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And with negative visualization, we can prepare for and make peace with the worst possible
而通過消極的視覺化,我們可以為最壞的情況做準備,並與之和平相處。
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scenario, while still reaping the upside of the best possible scenario.
情景,同時還能收穫最好的升值空間。
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And negative visualization isn't just a simple tactic, it's more of a way of life.
而消極的視覺化不僅僅是一種簡單的策略,更是一種生活方式。
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You have to actually become the kind of person who can make peace with the worst possible
你必須真正成為那種能與最壞的可能和平相處的人。
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scenarios.
場景。
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And the steps are simple, set a goal, anticipate the obstacles, come up with a plan.
而步驟很簡單,設定目標,預估障礙,拿出計劃。
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They are simple but
它們雖然簡單,但
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not easy.
不容易。
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So good luck!
所以,祝你好運!