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  • - I think of myself as brave.

    - 我認為自己是勇敢的。

  • The Sorting Hat even acknowledged I was.

    分揀帽甚至承認我是。

  • - Ah, what bravery.

    - 啊,真勇敢。

  • You'd be great in Gryffindor. - Nope, Slytherin.

    你在格蘭芬多會很好。- 不,斯萊特林。

  • - Are you sure?

    - 你確定嗎?

  • You'd fit right in. - Listen,

    你會很適合的- 聽我說

  • you dusty old headpiece.

    你這個滿是灰塵的老頭飾。

  • I look fantastic in emerald green

    我穿上翠綠色的衣服很好看

  • and I was born in 1989,

    而我是1989年出生的。

  • which is the year of the snake,

    這是蛇年。

  • so I am Slytherin and Slytherin only.

    所以我是斯萊特林,而且只屬於斯萊特林。

  • - Yeah, I think you just proved your point.

    - 是啊,我想你剛剛證明了你的觀點。

  • Slytherin!

    斯萊特林!

  • - And I gave birth to the most courageous creature

    - 我生下了最勇敢的生物。

  • to grace this earth.

    來美化這個世界。

  • (grunting and moaning)

    (叫聲和呻吟)

  • - One more push. - You can do it, baby.

    - 再推一下- 你能做到的,寶貝。

  • You can do it.

    你能做到的

  • You've got this. (yelling)

    你已經得到了這個。(大喊)

  • - His back left leg is detached from his hip,

    - 他的左後腿與臀部分離。

  • he's prone to bladder infections,

    他容易患膀胱炎。

  • and he's got an enlarged heart

    他有一個擴大的心臟

  • that will require years of medical attention.

    這將需要多年的醫療護理。

  • - Oh.

    - 哦。

  • - Oh my God he's beautiful.

    - 哦,我的上帝,他是美麗的。

  • What should we name him?

    我們應該給他取什麼名字呢?

  • - His name is Congress.

    - 他的名字是國會。

  • Congress The Brave.

    國會《勇敢者》。

  • That's his full name, and don't you forget it.

    這是他的全名,你別忘了。

  • My point is I pride myself

    我的意思是,我為自己感到驕傲

  • on identifying as a brave person.

    關於認定自己是一個勇敢的人。

  • And even if I'm afraid, I usually take that as a sign

    即使我害怕,我通常也會把它當作一個信號。

  • that I should go and do it anyway to be courageous.

    我應該去做,無論如何要有勇氣。

  • I mean, I did stand up for like a decade,

    我的意思是,我沒有站起來 像十年。

  • which I think you know takes a lot of balls

    我想你也知道,這需要很大的勇氣。

  • to get up on stage and make a total fool of yourself.

    站在舞臺上,讓自己完全出醜。

  • I'm Japanese Hawaiian so I'm historically self-destructive.

    我是日本夏威夷人,所以我歷來有自我毀滅的傾向。

  • (audience moaning and groaning)

    (觀眾呻吟和呻吟)

  • Wow, too soon.

    哇,太快了。

  • I didn't think that joke would bomb.

    我沒想到這個玩笑會炸開。

  • - Oh my God, geez.

    - 哦,我的上帝,哎呀。

  • - Get off the stage. - Get off the,

    - 下臺吧- 下來。

  • yeah, go away.

    是啊,走開。

  • - Okay, all right, tough crowd.

    - 好吧,好吧,難纏的人群。

  • But no matter how brave we are,

    但無論我們多麼勇敢。

  • I have found that there's one question

    我發現有一個問題

  • we are terrified to ask

    畏首畏尾

  • when we're emotionally invested in the answer.

    當我們對答案投入感情時。

  • It makes us feel so vulnerable,

    這讓我們覺得很脆弱。

  • so open to hurt, so terrified and paralyzed,

    如此開放的傷害,如此驚恐和麻痺。

  • and it is.

    而且它是。

  • - So like, what are we?

    - 那麼,我們是什麼?

  • (monitor beeping)

    (顯示器嗶嗶聲)

  • - Scalpel.

    - 手術刀。

  • - What are you looking for?

    - 你在找什麼?

  • (laughing)

    (笑)

  • - Doc, where do you see this going?

    - 醫生,你覺得這事會怎樣?

  • Where are we headed?

    我們要去哪裡?

  • What does our future look like?

    我們的未來是什麼樣的?

  • - Gigawatts.

    - 千兆瓦。

  • - New connection and intimacy leaves us so vulnerable

    - 新的聯繫和親密關係讓我們如此脆弱

  • to disappointment and hurt and rejection.

    到失望、傷害和拒絕。

  • So I met someone I really like,

    所以我遇到了一個我很喜歡的人。

  • I thought he was great at talking about trauma.

    我覺得他很擅長談論創傷。

  • And we had all these great conversations.

    我們有所有這些偉大的對話。

  • He had a great sense of humor.

    他很有幽默感。

  • And he seemed to be emotionally available,

    而且他似乎在感情上是可以的。

  • consistent, reliable, and responsive,

    始終如一、可靠、反應迅速。

  • which are the telltale signs of secure attachment.

    這些都是安全依戀的明顯標誌。

  • Hey, gold flags, anyone?

    嘿,金旗,有人知道嗎?

  • But I am a preoccupied anxious attachment baby girl,

    但我是一個心事重重的依戀型女嬰。

  • which means that when I meet someone

    這意味著,當我遇到一個人

  • and I can see it going somewhere

    我可以看到它去某處

  • I am now just riddled with full blown anxiety

    我現在只是充滿了全面的焦慮症

  • and fear of abandonment.

    和害怕被拋棄。

  • And it triggers all of my deepest insecurities.

    它引發了我所有最深的不安全感。

  • I was having a panic attack with my therapist,

    我和我的治療師在一起的時候,我有一個恐慌症。

  • and she said.

    她說:

  • - What do you think about just asking him

    - 你覺得直接問他怎麼樣

  • where he sees this going?

    他認為這是怎麼回事?

  • Or if he's looking for a committed relationship?

    或者,如果他想找一個承諾的關係?

  • - No, absolutely not.

    - 不,絕對不是。

  • No, I don't wanna do that.

    不,我不想這樣做。

  • What is wrong with you?

    你是怎麼了?

  • - Well, maybe-

    - 嗯,也許...

  • - Do you want me to die?

    - 你想讓我死嗎?

  • And if you're like me and this stage of intimacy

    如果你像我一樣,這個階段的親密關係。

  • makes you wanna throw up in your mouth,

    讓你想吐在你的嘴。

  • then swallow it back down 'cause you're a champ,

    然後把它咽回去,因為你是一個冠軍。

  • I'll relay what the Oracle says.

    我會轉述甲骨文說的話。

  • - Having this level of open communication

    - 有這種程度的公開交流

  • about what you need to feel safe,

    關於你需要的安全感。

  • in this case knowing where something is headed,

    在這種情況下,知道一些東西的走向。

  • knowing what's on the table, knowing how someone feels,

    知道桌子上的東西,知道某人的感受。

  • that's important for the kind of

    這對那種

  • committed relationship you're looking for.

    承諾的關係,你正在尋找。

  • And the way that someone responds to that

    而有人對此的迴應方式

  • is going to inform you of so much.

    是要告知你這麼多。

  • Because if they say-

    因為如果他們說...

  • - I'm looking for someone who will give me

    - 我在找一個能給我的人

  • all the emotional and physical benefits of a girlfriend

    情感和身體上的所有好處,一個女朋友

  • without me having any accountability or responsibility

    我沒有任何責任和義務

  • to show up as a partner.

    以出現在合作伙伴。

  • - That's gonna tell you a lot.

    - 這可以告訴你很多東西。

  • Alternatively, they may say something that you wanna hear.

    或者,他們可能會說一些你想聽的話。

  • - I'm just looking for someone who will

    - 我只是在找一個會

  • go to the courthouse with me right now,

    和我一起去法院,現在。

  • lock it down, turn it around,

    鎖定它,把它轉過來。

  • put a ring and a dress on it, baby girl.

    戴上戒指,穿上衣服,寶貝女兒。

  • - I don't know, that's a little too soon.

    - 我不知道,這有點太快了。

  • - Something along those lines.

    - 沿著這些路線。

  • Either way, I know it's terrifying to ask for what you need,

    不管是哪種方式,我都知道,要求你所需要的東西是很可怕的。

  • but that's what this question is.

    但這就是這個問題。

  • It's getting information you need

    它是獲取你所需要的資訊

  • so you can find the committed relationship

    所以你可以找到承諾的關係

  • you're looking for.

    你要找的。

  • - And look, yeah, it's disgusting and terrifying.

    - 你看,是的,這很噁心,很可怕。

  • And I wanna shrivel up and die just thinking about it,

    想到這裡,我就想萎縮而死。

  • but I did it.

    但我做到了。

  • I did it.

    我做到了

  • I had written this video before I was gonna do it.

    在我要做這個視頻之前,我已經寫好了。

  • And then I did it.

    然後我就做了。

  • And I didn't get the answer I wanted.

    而我並沒有得到我想要的答案。

  • It sucks.

    糟透了

  • But now I don't have to waste my time and energy

    但現在我不用再浪費時間和精力了。

  • on someone who doesn't deserve me in their life,

    在一個不配擁有我的人身上。

  • or that's what my therapist says anyway.

    反正我的治療師也是這麼說的。

  • I'll try to believe it.

    我會試著去相信它。

  • Anyway, yeah, good luck with this question yourself.

    總之,是的,祝你自己這個問題解決的好。

  • I'm Anna Akana, and thank you to the patrons

    我是安娜-阿卡納,感謝各位贊助人的支持。

  • who supported today's video

    誰支持今天的視頻

  • and thank you to NordVPN

    並感謝NordVPN

  • for sponsoring today's episode.

    感謝贊助今天的節目。

  • As you guys may remember from my

    你們可能還記得我的

  • Instagram Story meltdowns last month,

    上個月,Instagram Story崩潰了。

  • I was in Canada to film a show,

    我在加拿大拍了一個節目。

  • and because of COVID I had to quarantine for two weeks alone

    因為COVID的關係,我不得不獨自隔離兩個星期

  • and then stay there for the entire duration of filming.

    然後在整個拍攝期間都呆在那裡。

  • And I was incredibly sad that so many

    我非常難過,這麼多

  • of my favorite entertainment platforms were not available,

    的我最喜歡的娛樂平臺無法使用。

  • but fret, not my friends, NordVPN lets you access Netflix,

    但別擔心,我的朋友,NordVPN可以讓你訪問Netflix。

  • Hulu, Prime Video, and HBO Max,

    Hulu、Prime Video和HBO Max。

  • no matter where you are in the world.

    不管你在哪裡

  • It even worked when I was filming in China,

    甚至我在中國拍戲的時候也能用。

  • which is incredibly impressive.

    這是令人難以置信的印象。

  • You can have up to six simultaneous connections

    您最多可以同時擁有六個連接

  • with their super fast servers.

    與他們的超快服務器。

  • There's no data logging

    沒有數據記錄

  • and double data encryption for increased anonymity.

    和雙重數據加密,提高匿名性。

  • If you ever have an issue

    如果您有任何問題

  • they have 24 seven customer support.

    他們有七天24小時的客戶支持。

  • And I definitely needed that in Canada

    而我在加拿大絕對需要這個

  • so I could watch those sweet, sweet NXIVM documentaries.

    這樣我就可以看那些甜蜜的,甜蜜的NXIVM紀錄片。

  • Go to NordVPN.com/Anna and get the special holiday deal.

    前往NordVPN.com/Anna,獲得特別的節日優惠。

  • Every purchase of a two-year plan will get you

    每購買一個兩年期計劃,您將獲得

  • four additional months for free.

    額外四個月的免費。

  • That's NordVPN.com/Anna,

    那就是NordVPN.com/Anna。

  • and use code Anna at checkout.

    並在結賬時使用代碼Anna。

  • Happy New Year, even though we all died in March

    新年快樂,雖然我們都在三月死去了

  • and 2020's gonna live on.

    和2020年的要去生活。

- I think of myself as brave.

- 我認為自己是勇敢的。

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一個我們都不敢問的問題 (One question we're all afraid to ask)

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