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  • Hey Psych2goers! Welcome back to another Psych2go video.

    嘿 Psych2go 的觀眾!歡迎再次來到 Psych2go 的影片。

  • Have you ever wondered, what kind of parenting you grew up under?

    你是否曾經想過,你在哪種教養方式下成長?

  • Do you think your relationship with your parents is toxic?

    你認為你和父母的關係是惡毒的嗎?

  • A parent is toxic when their negative behavior impacts and even damages their children's emotional and mental well being.

    當父母的負面行為影響甚至損害到孩子的情緒和心理健康時,父母就算是有毒家長。

  • So here are five types of toxic parents.

    那麼,這邊來介紹五種有毒家長的類型。

  • One, "The Controlling Parent."

    第一種是「控制型父母」。

  • Do your parents control what you do?

    你的父母是否會控制你的一舉一動?

  • Do they constantly try to manipulate and control your decisions, feelings, and actions?

    他們是否不斷地嘗試操縱和控制你的決定,感受和行為?

  • For example: They try to dictate what career path to take.

    例如:他們試圖為你決定你的職涯。

  • Even if it goes against what you want.

    即便那不是你想從事的行業。

  • While their involvement can lead to positive outcomes, inappropriate or excessive involvement can lead to a higher level of anxiety and depression in their children.

    雖然他們的參與可能會有正面的效果,然而不適當或過度的參與會導致孩子更加焦慮和沮喪。

  • Two, "The Parent with Unrealistic Expectations."

    第二種是「懷有不切實際期望的父母」。

  • Were you ever scared of failing to meet your parent's expectations and disappointing them?

    你是否曾經害怕無法達到父母的期望並讓他們失望?

  • It's normal for parents to want the best for their children.

    父母想要孩子好是正常的。

  • However, when these expectations become unrealistic, it can place a lot of pressure on their children.

    但是,當這些期望變得不切實際時,就會給孩子帶來很大的壓力。

  • You may feel stressed about being unable to meet those expectations, which could lead to feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem.

    你可能會因為無法達到這些期望而感到壓力,導致你認為自己有不足的地方或感到自卑。

  • Number three, "The Verbally Abusive Parent."

    第三種是「言語暴力型父母」。

  • There's a difference between scolding and verbal abuse.

    責罵和言語侮辱不一樣。

  • They might say, "Why aren't you studying? Doing some practice questions can help you feel more prepared."

    父母責罵時可能會說:「你為什麼沒有在讀書?做一些練習題可能會讓你更有把握。」

  • Verbal Abuse, on the other hand, is a destructive form of communication.

    然而,言語侮辱是一種有害的溝通方式。

  • They may say something like, "Why aren't you studying? You're so lazy and useless."

    他們可能會說:「你為什麼沒有在讀書?你真的很懶惰、沒用。」

  • When this happens, you could end up internalizing the remarks.

    當這種情況發生時,你可能會把這些話放在心裡。

  • Which could lead to self-deprecation and low self-esteem.

    這有可能導致自我貶低和自卑的情緒。

  • Four, "The Invasive Parent."

    第四種是「侵入型的父母」。

  • Do your parents know little about having boundaries?

    你的父母是否對界限這個觀念不太了解?

  • Did they look through your phone or your diary without your permission?

    他們是否在未經你允許的情況下看你的手機或日記?

  • It's important that you have your own personal space.

    擁有自己的私人空間非常重要。

  • Especially, when you're growing up.

    特別是在你成長的過程中。

  • The constant invasion of privacy may lead you to find yourself resorting to lying and hiding.

    不斷侵犯隱私的行為有可能會導致你只能說謊或躲避。

  • The lack of personal space can be the cause of an uneasy and distant relationship between parent and child.

    缺乏私人空間有可能是父母和子女之間不安和疏遠關係的原因。

  • Five, "The Neglectful Parent."

    第五種是「忽視小孩的父母」。

  • On the other hand, do your parents rarely check in on your everyday life?

    另一方面,你的父母是否很少關心你的日常生活?

  • Neglect is a form of child maltreatment that can lead to negative social, behavioral, and cognitive impacts on a child.

    忽視孩子是對孩子的一種虐待,也有可能導致孩子在社交、行為和認知上有負面的影響。

  • Having a neglectful parent can also result in a distant relationship, as you may feel like they were never present in your life.

    父母的疏忽也有可能導致疏遠的關係,因為你會覺得他們好像跟你毫無關係。

  • For example: Parents who are substance or alcohol abusers may have difficulty giving the proper care that their children need.

    例如:濫用毒品或酗酒的父母可能會無法給予孩子所需的照料。

  • What are your thoughts on these types of toxic parents?

    你對這種有毒家長有什麼看法?

  • Do you relate to any of the parenting types in this video?

    你有體會過影片中提到的教養方式嗎?

  • Let us know in the comments below.

    在底下留言告訴我們。

  • If you find this video helpful, be sure to like, subscribe, and share this video with those who might benefit from it.

    如果這個影片對你有幫助,記得按讚、訂閱我們的頻道,並分享給看了可能會有收穫的人。

  • References and studies used in this video are added in the description below.

    這支影片所使用的參考資料和研究都備註在底下資訊欄。

  • Thanks for watching, and we'll see you on our next one!

    謝謝觀賞,我們在下一支影片見!

Hey Psych2goers! Welcome back to another Psych2go video.

嘿 Psych2go 的觀眾!歡迎再次來到 Psych2go 的影片。

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