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  • JOYCE: YOU KNOW, I'VE TOLD YOU THAT I HAD ALL

  • KINDS OF PROBLEMS.

  • I MEAN, LIKE, FROM BEING ABUSED FOR 15 YEARS BY MY DAD.

  • AND I MEAN, THIS WASN'T JUST AN OCCASIONAL THING, THIS WAS ALL

  • THE TIME, ALL THE TIME, ALL THE TIME, ALL THE TIME.

  • AND, I'M NOT GOING TO GO THROUGH ALL THE NASTY DETAILS, YOU CAN

  • GET IT IN OTHER TEACHINGS AND BOOKS.

  • BUT, I WAS IN BAD SHAPE BY THE TIME HE GOT DONE WITH ME.

  • AND I LOOKED OKAY ON THE OUTSIDE.

  • I MEAN, I DIDN'T LOOK LIKE THERE'S ANYTHING WRONG WITH ME.

  • BUT BOY, I HAD A MESS IN MY SOUL.

  • AND YOU KNOW, WHEN YOU HAVE A MESS IN YOUR SOUL, YOU KNOW

  • WHERE IT STARTS SHOWING UP?

  • IN RELATIONSHIPS.

  • AMEN?

  • AUDIENCE: AMEN.

  • JOYCE: FOR ONE THING, I DIDN'T LIKE MYSELF BECAUSE I

  • THOUGHT SOMETHING WAS WRONG WITH ME BECAUSE OF WHAT HE HAD

  • DONE TO ME.

  • AND IF YOU DON'T LIKE YOURSELF, YOU'RE NOT GOING TO BE ABLE GET

  • ALONG WITH ANYBODY ELSE.

  • AND SO, I WAS MISERABLE AND THEREFORE, I SET ABOUT TRYING TO

  • MAKE DAVE MISERABLE.

  • AND MISERABLE PEOPLE DON'T EVEN REALIZE WHAT THEY'RE DOING.

  • BUT THE HONEST TRUTH IS, IS THAT WHEN YOU'RE MISERABLE YOU

  • REALLY DON'T WANT ANYBODY ELSE TO BE HAPPY.

  • YOU WANT OTHER PEOPLE TO BE MISERABLE WITH YOU.

  • AND YOU MAYBE DON'T EVEN DO IT ON PURPOSE, BUT YOU REALLY JUST

  • TRY TO MAKE THEM MISERABLE.

  • MY FATHER WAS A MISERABLE HUMAN BEING AND HE DID HIS BEST TO

  • MAKE EVERYBODY ELSE THAT HE WAS AROUND MISERABLE.

  • AND WE ALL LET HIM DO IT BECAUSE WE DIDN'T KNOW THAT

  • WE HAD A CHOICE.

  • WELL, DAVE WAS BORN-AGAIN, SPIRIT-FILLED CHRISTIAN, WHO'D

  • BEEN PRAYING FOR A WIFE.

  • AND HE TOLD GOD, "MAKE IT SOMEBODY THAT NEEDS HELP."

  • NOW, YOU WANT TO BE VERY CAREFUL HOW YOU PRAY.

  • [AUDIENCE LAUGHING]

  • JOYCE: CAN YOU IMAGINE SOMEBODY PRAYING THAT?

  • BUT SEE, THAT'S WHAT A STRONG CHRISTIAN SAYS, YOU KNOW,

  • "I CAN TAKE IT.

  • GIVE ME SOMEBODY THAT NEEDS HELP.

  • I WANT TO BE USED BY YOU, GOD." YOU KNOW, I DON'T EVEN THINK HE

  • KNEW WHAT HE WAS DOING WHEN HE PRAYED THAT.

  • I'M SURE IT WAS JUST LIKE, A DIVINE--MAYBE HE WAS IN A

  • TRANCE OR SOMETHING WHEN HE PRAYED THAT PRAYER...

  • [AUDIENCE LAUGHING]

  • JOYCE: YOU KNOW, LET ME TELL YOU.

  • HE GOT SOMEBODY THAT NEEDED HELP.

  • BUT, DAVE WAS STRONG ENOUGH IN THE LORD THAT HE WOULD NOT LET

  • ME MAKE HIM UNHAPPY.

  • AND THE HAPPIER HE STAYED, THE MADDER IT MADE ME.

  • [AUDIENCE LAUGHING]

  • JOYCE: DOES ANYBODY KNOW WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT?

  • AUDIENCE: YES.

  • JOYCE: ALRIGHT.

  • BUT, IT WAS ONE OF THE BEST THINGS HE EVER DID FOR ME.

  • BECAUSE, I SAW--NOW, LISTEN TO ME, THOSE OF YOU THAT ARE

  • MARRIED TO SOMEBODY THAT SPENDS ALL THEIR TIME TRYING TO MAKE

  • YOU UNHAPPY.

  • COME ON.

  • OR MAYBE, YOU'RE THE ONE THAT SPENDS ALL YOUR TIME TRYING TO

  • MAKE SOMEBODY ELSE UNHAPPY.

  • [AUDIENCE LAUGHING]

  • JOYCE: I DON'T KNOW, IF YOU'RE THE ONE THAT'S

  • HERE, SO...

  • [AUDIENCE LAUGHING]

  • JOYCE: I GOTTA PREACH TO WHO I GOTTA PREACH TO.

  • [AUDIENCE APPLAUDING]

  • JOYCE: BUT, WHAT I BEGAN TO SEE WAS STABILITY.

  • SOMETHING I HAD NEVER SEEN BEFORE.

  • I BEGAN TO SEE SOMEBODY WHO WASN'T CONTROLLED BY

  • OUTWARD CIRCUMSTANCES.

  • DAVE LOVED ME UNCONDITIONALLY, BUT I HAD TO RECEIVE THE LOVE.

  • HE DIDN'T TURN IT ON AND OFF BASED ON MY BEHAVIOR.

  • HE JUST WAS, WHO HE WAS.

  • AND ONE OF THE THINGS THAT WE NEED TO LEARN IS TO BE WHO GOD

  • WANTS US TO BE NO MATTER WHAT EVERYBODY ELSE IS DOING.

  • DID YOU HEAR ME?

  • [AUDIENCE APPLAUDING]

  • JOYCE: MAYBE SOMEBODY'S BEEN MEAN TO YOU, THEY HAVEN'T

  • TREATED YOU RIGHT.

  • AND SO NOW, YOUR TEMPTATION IS YOU'RE GOING TO BUILD A WALL,

  • AND YOU'RE NOT GOING TO LET THEM INTO YOUR LIFE, AND YOU'RE NOT

  • GOING TO TALK TO 'EM, AND YOU'RE GOING TO GIVE 'EM

  • THE COLD SHOULDER.

  • WELL, THAT'S NOT THE WAY GOD WANTS YOU TO RESPOND.

  • BECAUSE, NOW YOU'RE LETTING THEM CONTROL YOU.

  • AND WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS JUST SAY, "GOD, I'M GOING TO

  • BE WHO I AM.

  • AND I'M GOING TO TRUST YOU TO TAKE CARE OF THEM."

  • SO, I'M TELLING YOU THAT YOU DON'T HAVE TO LET OTHER PEOPLE

  • MAKE YOU UNHAPPY.

  • AND THAT'S SOMETHING THAT YOU CAN DO, BUT ONLY IF YOU HAVE

  • SELF-CONTROL.

JOYCE: YOU KNOW, I'VE TOLD YOU THAT I HAD ALL

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