字幕列表 影片播放 列印英文字幕 What do women want in a man? The best way for me to answer this question is to use an analogy of a car. You see what the car looks like matters to a degree: the condition that it's in how fashionable it is how expensive it is. All of these are factors Just like how the way you dress, your personal hygiene and your physique are important factors that women like in men. However the most important thing to a woman is not the car itself. Because if you have a nice car and just sits in the garage all day it's nowhere nearly as exciting as an average car that travels to many different places. The excitement, which is the most appealing factor, lies in the journey that you take her on in your car. That's why you see tons of men out there who are good looking, who have decent amount of money, they have a nice car, but they find that very few women stay interested in them. And they wonder: why? I have everything a woman could want why do they keep leaving me? Well it's because although they do have a nice car they're not doing anything with it. What women really want is to experience a ride. This means having a destination. This means having a goal that you are constantly pursuing, constantly driving towards. Because no woman wants to sit in a nice car and ask: "hey what's your goal, where we going?" and hear: "well I really have a goal so we can just park here and admire this car." And oftentimes guys will make the mistake of making woman their destination in life. They try so hard to get girls to like them to dedicate more time and effort to doing this then they do towards improving their own lives. So when they finally do convince a girl to sit in their car they find that she'll leave rather quickly. The relationship doesn't go well. She breaks up with you or she mentions divorce. Because once she realizes that your car isn't going anywhere that your destination in life turned out to be her. She will lose all interest. This is why it's so important to have some sort of destination some sort of dream it doesn't matter what it is. It could be about saving the world's population of turtles or it could be about inspiring others with your banjo music. It really doesn't matter what it is as long as you believe in it and as long as you're constantly chasing after it. That's what's important. That's why you see starving band members or broke hippies having tons of beautiful women in their lives. Because they have an extremely vivid dream that they are constantly pursuing. The musician may never become a famous rock star and the hippie may never change the government's policies but they don't stop believing. No matter what, they're still driving toward their destination at top speed. And it's this passionate pursuit of one's dreams that's irresistible to women. It's exciting it's like watching a movie unravel in real life and honestly. This is something that's universally attractive not just for women. So focus on yourself discover what your destination is and start pursuing it with a passion. Only then will you obtain the one thing that women want most.