字幕列表 影片播放 列印英文字幕 I'm gonna tell you a story. It was the summer of 1991 on. I was a student, like most off you. I was in my 12 standard on I was discussed. Moto decide. What should I do about my career now? How many fewer that cross are you doing? What you want to ruin your future? Crazy friends? Several if you write five us. I was in the same board on Dhe. This was almost three decades back, so we didn't have too many options. It was fairly buying real nature. You either become a doctor or an engineer. At that point, I took a decision, would change the course of my life. I decided to join Maternity. Now, nobody in my family and I were seen a ship before. Forget about walking on a ship. I had never seen a ship before. I had no idea what life on ship would be like. But all I can be collected that from that time I had a strong urge to do something different to be different. So I joined much Any dedicated. And for the next 15 years, I was sailing on ships all over the world becoming captain photographs on my ship. That's me as a kid. I just made an officer with long hair. I have a point off course most of my head is gone and there's a photograph of my shipping days. Don't Fairly scary, you know, encumbering storms and hurricanes and chasing off Pyrex and never getting to lice butts. So failure rented a central line Cario. But lean down beside that decision tojoin merchandise not just changed the course of my life, but it also changed the very look at life. From that time onwards, I have this constant made toe really let myself chained myself all the time before ever followed. I want to ask you a question home in a few present here Want to live an extraordinary life, a great life defense for All right, let me give you some bad news. Is that most off you? Most of you will end up living a very hard Emily and medical life. You know why most off you will be afraid of change? Most of you would not want a vigorous Most of you would not want to challenge the status school and most of you would want to stay Billy. No comfort zone. My career graph from a cadet, Captain B school to investment, banking coaching have been various things in life. All very unrelated. Very different things not connected to each other. Call things. I had no experience. And if you look at this car goes up, what does this guy get out for the present life and what does a line? A flatlander does not change the present with presents and a life. You know, when I said bad news, all you most off you will end up living lives like millions and billions of people on this plan. Ordinary, insignificant life. Your life would be unremarkable, non interesting standard simple act, miserable life. They want to live a life like this. How many want to live a life like this alive? Which is ordinary medical standards? Anybody wants to leave this title you want? Nobody wants not. I want to invite all of you to go back with a child on things when you're a child. And some of you are still Children, right? I believe all of us all of us are born with immense potential unlimited possibilities. I believe all of us are born with what I call a circle of infinity, and they're certainly looks like this. It's a certain in finite radius. Just go and think, What do you want to become? A child would want to become a doctor one day on engineer, one day, a pilot when the policeman one day and so and so forth. Because as a child, possible possibilities are unlimited. Immense possibilities, right? But what happens next? Grow our values, our belief systems, our family norms. All of us are born with immense potential. But what happens when we grow our value systems, Our belief systems So silent moms family Long's suit. The circle on the subtle becomes smaller on smaller and smaller and smaller telling becomes a dog on. This is how most of us live our lives like a tiny door like a small circle. Reliever lives, which is ordinary, mediocre, uninteresting life nobody cares about. But when we talk of change of Riverton, I don't want all you think about big ideas like saying environment, getting quality and so on. For once, I want all of you just think about your lives. How can you change the way you live? Because if you can change the way you live. You can have the power to change the world. You know, I'll ask you again. How many of you want to live a life where you stand up? Haman? If you a life, it is extraordinary. Remarkable, Fantastic. A life. Let it inspire people a life. Erica motivate people alive that can stand up a fair few things from my personal example experience. Things that work for me on no fully. Both instrument for us. Well, Theo, first thing is I call language of constraint. Thought this is the actual language we speak. The words will speak with most of the time. Most of us are used to speaking a language which is full of strange, very strange, limited language. Use words like I can't do it. I don't have time. I'm busy. It can be done and so on and so forth. And what happens when we speak this language day in and day out? It keeps on reinforcing itself. Do you almost believe it's a fact? So if you tell him yourself every day, I'm busy. I don't have time. I'm busy. I don't have time. I believe a ziff you don't have time hollow excuse. So people who live ordinary lives will always use what I call a language of constraint. Language means the words you use verbal language use language is very, very powerful medium. So my first and life to all of you is if you want to create an extraordinary life. If you want to change the way you live, stop using a language of constraint. Start using a language which is unconstrained a language which is positive. Affirmative. I can do it. I want I very good. I have to do I have time. It's possible you'll be surprised just by changing your language. How much can you can shift your belief systems to be able to take your boots? Find number two under promise over. Deliver Anybody heard of the space? Everybody in this place, this very fairly popular corporate world, Right? When you join a job, you're told that you should under promise and over Deliver on the promise simply means you set your targets, Lou. You set your goals low so that you can easily achieve them on. Then what? You're slightly more, which gives an illusion of being in order to I completely disagree with this philosophy. What happens when you under promise Under prominent maze, you set of one's really lawyer Center palace really low that they should not stretching yourself. You're very little comfort zone. There is minimal risk in a way, when you set your sights on board really low, you are cheating yourself from your true potential. So when next rise to all a fuse, if you want to create an extraordinary life, if you want the chains of a live if you want to stand out, start over Promising. Warned asshole. Promised me, said your targets really, really almost impossible Now you must say, if I said my progress really high, I might see Phil. You will? Yes, just once, maybe several times. But I want to draw an analogy from the field of sports Hominy. You hear players sport. Follow, scored most of your right. And if you think about your favorite sports person of sports D, what's promised in me, what are our gets sick? The targets are really, really high all the time. That thing off the gold medal for the World Cup for the championship. Have you ever heard of a sportsman saying I want a bronze medal for a team thing. I want to reach the quarterfinalist move. They will always set the targets really high. But does that nearly always succeed? No. The field. But once they fail, they come back. They learn from the mistakes. Learn from the failures on Comeback Song next time. So my second international a few is secular power acceptable to really, really high. Always promise to yourself on the people around you plane. But this is a very powerful technique. One of decoration. Me, most of us are very afraid of getting commitments Way Don't give up. Don't honorable except for this person. Because this gentleman says Edouard Manet, command ligament could given the center right, which moves me consolation. Once I've given a comet, man, I don't even listen to myself. I live up the commitment, but obviously all of us are not like me. So we are afraid to give coming. Prints were afraid to give our world because we are afraid of failure. But if you want to create a great life, you wanted an exception. Life. Start declaring yourself What does that mean? Start talking about your intentions, your boards and objective to the people around you. People tell the world what you want to do. That person can extremely powerful because it puts your name and reputation are stick. It puts your skin in the game and then you have skin in the game. Sometimes there is no backup and my last point. Make sure you have backup plans in life for everything you do. Make sure your backup plans like everybody's back a man's life. Don't pass backup plans, and I don't have any backup plans in life. What happens when you back a plan you are already thinking off. Failure is an option. You will never be 100% because, you know if I say I have something to back in. So my final restart wise don't have backup plans in life. Approach everything. Life with an all or nothing approach. No planetary, no plans. The only plan. Give your 110% so quickly. Stop using language, constrain or promise declare. Don't have complaints in life. Be bored being convention. Be radical today. Go back and examine your life. Do you want to continue living a life like that? Tiny dot like the tiny circle and ordinary, remarkable, uninteresting life which nobody cares about. Or do you want to strive for excellence? Do you want to create a life which is which is extraordinary, great, remarkable. A life which can inspire people like you can motivate people. Life can set you apart. I have a strong believe that all of us each one a few present here. All of us are meant to do great things in life. It is just that we settle for less thes settle for today you not perceptive for the ordinary. All of you have the gall to change the world all if you can change the world But first that change must start from you. Thank you.