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  • How to Stay Positive When Shizzel Hits the Fan

  • Hey, it’s Marie Forleo, and

  • you are watching MarieTV - the PLACE to be to have a business and life you love. This

  • is Q&A Tuesday, and today’s question comes from Camille.

  • And Camille writes,

  • Hi Marie, I've been following you for a couple of years now and I absolutely love your style.

  • I love you too girl! You've been a real inspiration and I think you kick ass! I think you kick

  • ass too girl! So here's my question: How do you manage your "mindset" on days when

  • shit happens? How do you keep the momentum going no matter what when you get a little

  • run down or you have some minor setback? What is your secret strategy for this?

  • Great question Camille.  Now, I will tell you on days when the shizzel hits the fan,

  • it is not easy for any of us. Although, over the years I’ve found there are some simple

  • things that I can do to process setbacks in a healthy way. In fact, here are my 4 strategies.

  • 1.  I let myself meltdown. Here’s the thing, on days when things happen, often tech issues

  • that are far outside of my control that I have to rely on others to fix, maybe I’m

  • just really frustrated, maybe I’ve had a rough day, maybe I’m PMSing. The thing

  • I have to do is I need to vent, I need to let it out, and yes, sometimes I need to cry.

  • My higher self knows that everything is gonna be fine and it’s not a life or death situation,

  • but the smaller part of me, the more egoic part of me, is freaking out. And I just have

  • to let myself feel my emotions.  

  • So this isn’t about being a jerk or lashing out at other people, but it’s just being

  • honest about what’s going on. So I really suggest that you let yourself feel what youre

  • feeling, just be honest about it, and sometimes you just gotta have a little meltdown.  

  • 2.  I talk it out. You know, I either call a friend or someone on my team, or I call

  • Josh and I say, “Hey, can I talk through something with you?” Talking, for me, has

  • a way of emotionally neutralizing situations so I can get more clear and more centered

  • about how to move ahead.

  • 3.  I don’t make decisions when I’m upset. When I’m freaking out, I am not in a position

  • to make wise choices. [I JUST WANT SOME BANGS! I JUST NEED BANGS!] So I defer to people I

  • trust to tell me what to do.  If they tell me to wait 24 hours before doing anything

  • else, I wait 24 hours.  If they tell me to just chill out and watch some Game of Thrones,

  • I watch some Game of Thrones. And if they tell me to just take a break, I take a break.

  •  A dance break!

  • Here’s the thing for you Camille, I’ve got one more tip for you and it’s a BONUS

  • TIP and a very proactive one.

  • You need to build in a “Shit Happensbuffer. Here’s the deal, in life, things

  • happen. Nothing ever goes quite as you planned. Things take longer, things break, yada, yada,

  • yada. In my business, we built in theshit happensbuffer because any time were

  • launching a product of a program, things never go as they should. So people get sick, people

  • miss deadlines, nothing ever works, and when you just set deadlines that are actually in

  • advance of the real deadlines, you give yourself a buffer so no one has to have meltdowns.

  • Now, before we wrap this up I want to leave you with a Mantra from the KING of Rock and

  • Roll. And yes, it’s a TWEETABLE.

  • When things go wrong, don’t go with them.” - Elvis Presley  [Thank you very much]

  • Camille, that is my A to your Q. I hope it helps.

  • Now, I want to hear from you. How do you manage your mindset when everything goes to shizz?

  • Do you build in a buffer? Do you have other tricks that you wanna share with us?

  • As always, the best stuff always happens after the episode over at, so go

  • there and leave a comment and let me know.

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  • Stay on your game and keep going for your dreams. The world needs that special gift

  • that only YOU have.  Thank you so much for watching and I’ll see you next time on MarieTV!

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