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過去簡單式

something that happened to me at Vidcon last June.

是在去年 6 月我參加 YouTube 舉辦的 Vidcon 大會時發生的

went to say hi to a couple of youtubers that I know,

and we're down socializing in this main area,

She's friends with a couple of these people

於是我向她說嗨並且做自我介紹

聊著聊著很突然地，莫名其妙地

裝出一副對什麼事都不屑的樣子」

"You know the only reason people like you

我當下想：「好吧，我該閃人了」

打電話給奈特並且忍不住放聲大哭

I didn't understand why this women who I just met,

我實在無法理解為何一個我剛認識的女人

When I was growing up, pretty much all my friends were guys,

在我成長的階段，我的朋友幾乎都是男生

thought that they were catty and shallow,

「天啊！我是個性別歧視者！」

I realized that I felt like I was in competition with other women,

我發現我自認為活在和女人競爭的狀態之中

competition to be the prettiest, to be the smartest,

交友最廣的，任何事都要爭第一

我認為，至少在某些方面要這樣

my experience at Vidcon and my feelings about women growing up

我參加 Vidcon 大會與我對女性反感的情緒與日俱增

They both come back to a phenomenon that I'm going to call :

這些都源自於一種情結，我稱之為：

女人的仇恨情結只為了一些瑣碎且毫無根據的理由

who likes to read or plays sports, or plays videogames,

喜歡閱讀或運動、或玩電腦遊戲

being catty, overly emotional drama-queens.

陰險狡猾，小題大作而且情緒化的人

"Oh my God, I would never wear that much make-up."

「天啊，我再也不要化濃妝了。」

"She tries so hard, it just makes her look desperate."

「她那麼拚，只是讓她看起來很絕望。」

It's a willingness to backstab and humiliate.

這是一種想陷害和羞辱他人的意念

and carrying a bitterness toward fellow women.

From birth, women are bombarded with messages

打從出生開始，女性就飽受一些訊息的轟炸

that tell them their worth is tied to how they look.

這些訊息告訴她們，她們的價值和外表兩者息息相關的

In order to be important, valuable and worth loving,

為了要成為重要，有價值，值得愛的人物

so that people don't think that you're a bimbo.

And don't forget to show just the right amount of emotions

so they don't think you're a cold bitch or overly emotional.

Oh, and make sure you pick out the right wardrobe

because you don't wanna be a prude or a slut.

因為妳不會想被叫假掰或是蕩婦吧

that will also allow you to be the perfect mom.

It creates this deep-seated expectation within ourselves

這些要求使我們心中產生了一種根深蒂固的期待

It's a little voice in the back of your head that says:

有一個微小的聲音總是在妳背後說：

that there is an atmosphere of competition amongst women

女性之間存在著一種競爭的氛圍

that sometimes results in feeling bitter,

frightened, tearing down others to raise yourself up

我們要如何終結這種愚蠢的行為？

要終結女人的仇恨情結就必須大家能清楚自我認知

妳因為某人很爛所以討厭她與女人的仇恨情結

女人的仇恨情結通常是不值得的

Of course, it's easy to justify the negative feelings

當然，要將妳對別人的這種負面情緒合理化

這也是為什麼要終止女人的仇恨情結

also requires us to be honest with ourselves,

to really examine why we feel the way we do about someone.

真心地檢視為什麼我們對某人會有那樣的感覺

The hope is that by becoming more honest and self-aware,

希望藉由真誠的自我檢視和認知

that we can cultivate a world of girl love!

我們可以培養出一個女人相愛情結

it's fighting together against some bullshit

它是一起對抗一些狗屁倒灶的事

「去他的這些不切實際的期待！

Girl love is recognizing the positive in each other

女人相愛情結是認識到彼此陽光的一面

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